Love is patience.

There is a widely quoted definition of love in 1 Corinthians, which begins with "Love is patient and kind". 」

Nowadays, divorce is becoming more and more common. When something so big happens, people often think that there is a huge contradiction between husband and wife. Actually, it is not. It is often some small details that have become the fuse for some couples to part ways.

The author, "Young women in literature and art specialize in all kinds of dissatisfaction", wrote in "Winners in life are often made" that singer Zhang Yao and actress Angel are both very unhappy after marriage. One is because the husband will splash water everywhere when he washes his face, which is not neat enough; One is that the faucet will be on when brushing your teeth, which makes people feel distressed. Of course, both of them found a solution later, and they were willing to put up with each other's small shortcomings. However, it is not uncommon to get divorced because of such trifles in life. I heard of a young couple who got married not long ago. Because they couldn't argue whether the toothbrush should be put upside down or in a cup, they finally divorced angrily.

Love and patience are mutually causal. Because of love, I am willing to endure, and because of patience, I get love. Xu Guanwen, a Hong Kong comedian, has a long and happy marriage. In his view, men are carnivores like tigers, and women are herbivores like cows. These two creatures themselves cannot live together for a long time. To maintain a long-term love, tigers need to eat grass occasionally, cows need to eat meat occasionally, and they need to cheat each other.

Unexpectedly, my wife was very unhappy after hearing this statement and asked Xu Guanwen, are you going to lie to me for a lifetime? Xu Guanwen said, yes, I only have such a lifetime, and I have used it to cheat you. What are you dissatisfied with?

If someone's love is worthy of your envy, it must be that they know that love is patient.

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