60-year-old second child

Mr. Tang is ten years older than his wife. Looking at my daughter-in-law's preoccupation these days, I can't help asking what's going on. As a result, his daughter-in-law's answer made him uneasy, but he thought about it afterwards.

It turns out that my mother-in-law is actively preparing for a second child and looking at a person who is almost 50 years old. Who will persuade her to turn her face? The doctor also said that giving birth to a child at this age would be life-threatening, but her mother-in-law paid for it all her life. She is willing, and I don't know if the second child is willing to accept it! Seeing that there was nothing the family could do for the elderly, the son-in-law sent a three-line question of the soul after coming to the door to greet him.

First, who will raise the child when it is born? Do you have the energy to take care of the baby? Finally, I need your daughter's help.

Second, as the mother of the child, do you have the ability to breastfeed and take care of the baby yourself?

Third, the cost of raising a baby in society is very high now. After the child is born, who will bear the money for raising the child?

Grandma, you are funny, too. Just answer that you adopted a son. The son-in-law blushed at that time and only called the old man a clown. Raising children is not a pet, but you can have me. Will the children thank us for this out-of-tune approach when they grow up? This question completely sobered her mother-in-law, and she never mentioned preparing for pregnancy and giving birth to a second child.

Let's listen to it. It's a joke, but if you are a party, you really don't know what to do, but you can't help buying stocks. This is an older woman, and there are many follow-up questions.

1, physical aspect

After 40 years old, a woman's physical function declines like a cliff, but she needs nutrition and a good parenting environment to give birth to a child. When the mother's already insufficient blood is absorbed by the child, her physical strength and energy will also deteriorate. Even if you insist on taking care of the baby yourself, can you determine your identity and take care of the children?

People sometimes can't underestimate what nature has given us. If you do what you can, you will grow against nature, and the result may not be good.

2. Psychological endurance

Others mistakenly think that your daughter is a granddaughter, and you are called grandma by your son's friends. Will you be afraid? Can you be unmoved?

Being old is a good thing, but having a second child when you are old is inevitably questioned and laughed at. You can think they meddle, but that's human nature, and you can't stop others' nonsense and malicious ridicule after all.

3. Whether the material foundation is sufficient.

It is a big problem to have children when you are old. Giving milk powder to children is not a small expense. In addition, children need to dress well, use well, learn more and be well informed. Let the old couple's pension light up in minutes. So you don't have enough material foundation to back it up, let alone the preparation for the second child. Raising children is not raising small animals. The birth of a child is an absolute responsibility. Everyone is happy when they are raised. If you can't raise it well, you will feel uncomfortable, your children will feel uncomfortable, and society will feel uncomfortable.

Of course, you have arranged all the above, so I still have to say hello to my boss. After all, your troubles are equivalent to his troubles. If you really want to give up, as a relative, he will cover for you! Therefore, giving birth to a child is really not a matter for one person. We should face it rationally and think twice before you act.