How to use modest words and honorifics

As the saying goes, "what you say must be done." Our daily conversation can preliminarily judge a person's thoughts, talents and personality. Many times, a person's speech and behavior are related to a person's ability to deal with the world and moral cultivation. So in life, we must learn to use modest words and phrases to add luster to ourselves. In fact, modest words and honorifics are the embodiment of a person's mental outlook. If you want to be cheerful, enthusiastic and make people feel easy-going and friendly, you must know that every word is approachable and easy to contact. Here are some tips for everyday conversation. Many words in Chinese have obvious tendencies, and some are used to modest words, which are called modest words; Some words are used to show respect for others. This kind of word is called honorific. This kind of words should be used correctly, otherwise it will make a joke. If you are modest, China is called "the state of etiquette". This kind of etiquette is also clearly reflected in the honorific custom in Chinese. Especially in ancient times, euphemism has always been highly valued. Modest words, as the name implies, are modest words. Since ancient times, China has always had a fine tradition of respecting and caring for young people, so we should also treat them with caution. For example, the honorifics used by the second person in ancient times include "Jun", "Zi", "Gong", "First Step", "Left and Right", "Sir" and "Deacon". Modern honorifics are divided into "please", "you", "your Excellency", "your wife", "your side" and so on. But usually in daily life, we use "master", "sir" and "lady" more. In the workplace or life, most successful people will pay great attention to using polite expressions, such as: hello, thank you, please, I'm sorry, welcome, please advise, excuse me, I've heard a lot about you, please forgive me, please advise, thank you, thank you and so on. These polite expressions sound cheerful and full of smiles. Proper use of polite language and modest words in communication can leave a good impression on the other party. When you meet someone, it may be easy to say hello to each other. But don't underestimate the greetings of these two words, which convey rich information, show your respect for each other, and better show that you are polite, educated and graceful. English people can't speak without the sentence "I'm sorry", which has become an idiom in their daily communication. When they need help, they always say sorry in advance, because they think asking for help at this time is disturbing your rest time. Even the British police have to say "Sorry, sir, you were speeding" when dealing with illegal drivers on the spot. Therefore, in such an atmosphere, the self-esteem of both sides is satisfied at the same time, and the quarrel will naturally not happen. 2. honorific words are a sign of a person's cultivation. Especially in social situations, using honorifics incorrectly will make you embarrassed. In daily life, we use "honorific words", which can actually bring people closer. As the saying goes, "a kind word warms three winters", it seems that polite expression can not only make people's feelings quickly and harmoniously, but also make you get more respect from others in your life. For example, if someone gets in your way, you say, "Get out of the way! What is the road ahead! " Maybe you can only get other people's dirty eyes. If you can use honorifics, say politely, "Excuse me, sir, would you please make way?" The other party will definitely get out of the way immediately and let you pass with a smile. Of course, sometimes honorifics should be used properly, otherwise the opposite effect may be obtained. Habits can actually be reflected in daily life. As long as you form a habit, your respect for others will naturally show. For example, when your boss asks you for something, you don't need to use honorific words, just nod with a natural smile and ask, "What's the matter?" Then your respect will naturally show. In fact, language is the clothes of thought, which can reflect a person's elegance or vulgarity. Young people should use polite and modest words properly if they want to connect the emotional heat flow and make their social interaction unimpeded. Because many times, a modest and polite expression can make people smile. . The common honorifics in legends are "Gui" (such as your school and company), "Da" (such as excellent works, which refer to the other party's works), "Gao" (such as high opinion), "Zun" (such as your name), "Bai" (such as please), "Ci" (if you have an idea, please ask others for advice) and "Ya Zheng". In conversation, using "my father", "my mother" and "my brother" means using "home" and "shed" to address your parents and brothers and sisters modestly, not others' parents and brothers. Calling others' parents and brothers "Ling" shows respect, such as calling others' parents "your father" and "your mother" and calling others' children "your son" and "your lover". In contrast to the above numerals, if you call your own work "my humble work", you call your own views "contempt", "humble opinion" and "humble opinion". The tendency of some words to be modest and respectful may not seem obvious, but they exist objectively and should be paid attention to. For example, the word "full support" is used to express gratitude to others for their help, not to say that they have helped others. Another example is "a little modesty", which is used by the elderly for self-modesty and cannot be used at will. Defending: It means to keep the champion won in the last competition. Compliment: honorific, which means that the other party gives (property) to my dad: honorific, calling others my dad and my mom: honorific, calling others my mom to visit: honorific, calling the other party to visit me: honorific, such as "What do you think?" Excuse me: polite words mean asking for forgiveness; Polite language used to ask others to give you convenience or. Golden wedding: European custom calls it the 50th wedding anniversary. Jin Lan can act as an agent for brothers and sisters, such as "Yi Jie Jin Lan". Suggestions (respectful or polite tone), such as "a word for you" and "bold suggestions" Haven't seen you for a long time. Politeness, I've heard a lot (when I first met you). Victory: refers to seeking. Excuse me: Courtesy, used to ask others to do things or give way to love (Yuan): honorific words, called the other daughter your son: honorific words, called the other son's relatives: honorific words, called the other mother's father: honorific words, called the other father's hospitality: polite words, used when the host saw him off, the guest asked the host not to. Wife: refers to the wife of the wife. Calling her wife is a courtesy to others. Used to ask the other person to accept his request or gift. Teacher: honorific words, used to ask people in the old days. Taishan Mountain, Taishui: Father-in-law, Mother-in-law TOEFL: Politeness, relying on the wealth of others to make yourself lucky. Diligent: honorific, bold (used to express gratitude), bold (often used as modest words) Du Fu: the ruthless ruler hated by the people. Fang Jia: The abbreviation of "generous house" refers to someone who is proficient in some knowledge and art. Fu Zi: Send the manuscript to Gaotang for printing: (book) refers to parents giving up what they love: giving up what they love (politely refusing).