What makes the audience feel embarrassed by the plot of the film and television?

Embarrassed, because there is a sense of distance from us. We are embarrassed because we don't understand the intention in these performances and creations. Like a cold joke, we didn't say that, and then we left a sentence, oh, this is embarrassing. Judging from the works and performances, it is because the creators lack life, let alone close to life. Why is Blind Well good? Because of the miners' life, naked human nature in the living state is reasonable. Recently, my first half of life, which is quite popular, also has comments on salary increase. Screenwriters have no life, so the role of consulting companies is blunt (please forgive me for not watching the play). Unwilling to get in touch with the real life state of characters and characters is the problem of artists' attitude towards their works. Although the hat buckle is a bit big, personally, all works that can't be called fine works and are not polished enough are also attitude problems.