Is Kong Rong a dutiful son?

Although it is said that "Kong Rong lets pears" is a failed education case, (the jokes in Shi Shuo Xin Yu are mixed with all kinds of low-level jokes, I wonder if this is true ...) (Some people say that eating small pears is to finish eating quickly and win one. . . But I still want to say a good word. Kong Rong is a good man and should be a dutiful son.

Kong Rong's filial piety:

1 "Magnolia" 262 quotes "Qin Zi": Kong Wenju, a North Sea facies, was mourned by his father, crying at the grave, and his color was not haggard. Wen Ju killed him.

When Kong Rong was a minister in Beihai, he saw a man crying at his dead father's grave on the road, but his face was not haggard at all. Kong Rong then killed the man.

2 "The Book of the Later Han Dynasty" Volume 70 "The Biography of Zheng Kongxun" Back to the 60th: In thirteen years, I lost my father, and I was mourning for it. After that, I helped it, and my country returned to filial piety.

When Kong Rong was thirteen, his father Kong Zhou died. Kong Rong was so sad that he needed help to stand up. So the country praised him for his filial piety.

"History of the Later Han Dynasty Volume 70 Biography of Zheng Kongxun": Cao Cao had a grudge, and Lu Chi was guilty of it, so he ordered the prime minister's army to find a way to offer a drink. He said: Shaofu Kong Rong used to be in Beihai, but when he saw that the royal family was not quiet, he recruited disciples and wanted to violate the rules. He said, "I am the Great Sage, but I was destroyed in the Song Dynasty. If there is a world, why should I use a golden knife? " And made a speech with Sun Quan to slander the imperial court. Merge into nine columns, not according to the etiquette. The bald towel walks slightly and suddenly. I talked to Mi Hengbai before and said, "A father is a child. What does that matter?" ? As far as its original intention is concerned, it is actually lust. What is a child to a mother? Is it also ridiculous? Like delivering something, and you left. "Therefore, it is more praised by constant. Weighing means melting: "Zhong Ni will not die. Rong replied, "Yan Hui has risen." . "If you break the law, you should be severely punished. The book is played, and the city is ruined. At the age of 56. Both the wife and the son were punished.

This is the relevant record when Kong Rong was killed by Cao Cao. Kong Rong said that there is no deep connection between parents and children. It's like storing things in a jar, and the things poured out of the jar have no feelings with the jar. This statement is indeed a serious violation of Tao. Now we have no way to know the whole truth, and we don't know under what circumstances Kong Rong made such a statement.

The only thing that is certain is that unfilial is a great sin. Cao Cao killed him not because he was unfilial, but because he wanted him to die. In the present words, Kong Rong is a typical "neither die nor die".

1 196 After Emperor Xiandi moved to Xuchang, he recruited Kong Rong as his teacher and was promoted to Shaofu. Every time he visits the imperial court, Kong Rong often summons him to make a quick decision, otherwise the doctor will only be in name only. And Cao Cao gradually began to want to make great achievements in the name of Emperor Xian of Han Dynasty, and Kong Rong became his obstacle.

In 2004, Cao Pi, the son of Cao Cao, married Zhen Shi, the wife of Yuan. Kong Rong wrote to Cao Cao and said, "The King of Wu attacked Zhou and gave da ji to the Duke of Zhou." Cao Cao didn't understand, and later he asked Kong Rong what was going on in He Dian. Kong Rong replied: "It is natural to measure things according to the current situation." This act of fabricating historical facts to satirize others by relying on one's own culture has poked Cao Cao's sore spot.

3. In 207 AD (the 12th year of Jian 'an), Cao Cao went north to discuss Wu Huan. Kong Rong laughed at him and said, "General Cao Cao went out to war and was depressed overseas. In the past, I was careful not to pay tribute to wood. Ding Ling stole Su Wu's cattle and sheep, so we can crusade together! " At that time, there was famine and war, and Cao Cao asked for prohibition of alcohol. Kong Rong wrote to Cao Cao many times, arguing that alcohol should not be banned, and most of his words were arrogant and rude.

In 2008, he was appointed as a doctor in Taizhong. Kong Rong is tolerant by nature, does not doubt people, attaches importance to talents, and likes to induce and promote young people. After retirement, guests are full every day. Cao Cao hopes that all the celebrities in the world are his people, and hates that people other than him have the ability to influence the political situation. At this time, Cao Cao was going to Jingzhou, and for the sake of stability in the rear, regardless of the dissuasion of ministers, he resolutely killed him.

Unfilial crimes were very serious in the Eastern Han Dynasty. To some extent, Cao Wei and Sima Qian advocated ruling the world by filial piety, which was related to their abdication experience.