I had a miscarriage, and a colleague was outspoken and kept telling me about it. The other one didn't say a word in front of me, but he talked nonsense behind my back. Do you think

Both of them are not good. The first person's emotional intelligence is low, and abortion is already a very sad thing. If a colleague with high emotional intelligence and kindness will definitely not always mention it in front of you, he will silently help you to have a rest, or keep silent if he can't help. The other person is just a garbage man, so you should be careful of this kind of person in the future.