Why am I so unlucky? I have a terrible father. I hate him to death. I won't say anything. I hate him all my life.

I feel that my life is bad, including intelligence, looks and talents. Actually, it wasn't caused by parents. This is our job. Why is this? Please look down:

How can we understand what happens in life? It should be said that this is the feeling of life karma. You may not understand talking about karma, but you may understand talking about luck, right? The feeling of luck means that you have benefited today, which means that you are lucky today; If you don't get any benefits today, you are out of luck today. Who should I ask if I have bad luck (including looks and intelligence)? You should ask yourself! That's how it should be.

How can we change this situation? Our luck comes from our every move. For example, future generations don't respect the elderly, because they lost their filial piety on impulse and scolded their ancestors. I was scolded at first, but there was basically no contradiction after that. Unexpectedly, three years later, the result came. What is retribution? It's ascites due to liver cirrhosis, and there is something wrong with the stomach. When we asked him, "How did you lose your filial piety? In what way am I sorry for my ancestors? " He said, "I was very kind to my ancestors!" " "Originally you tell you the result of liver cirrhosis, you're sorry ancestors. After the incident, that person will have another bad result in his next life. Can you believe it?

This is just an example. In fact, it is not only the loss of filial piety, but also many things that have caused our future fate because we have committed crimes. But how do we solve it?

Confucius said: "Life and death have a life, and wealth is in the sky."

Your present life is what you used to call it, and your future life and your present life can be resolved by what you do now. So in order to give your future a good life, you must accumulate more virtues, do good deeds now and live seriously. If you don't steal, you will be rich, and if you steal, you will be poor. After you are ready to help others, you have a noble person. No one will help you if you don't do what you should do. You are the one who is called rich and expensive and poor and poor. Help yourself! I recommend you an article that can accumulate happiness and increase happiness, and search the "Four Disciplines of Vernacular Chinese" online. People should know the blessings and cherish them in order to benefit.

So when we come here, we must remember that we are here to learn to respect everyone, care for everyone and be grateful to everyone. Why are you doing this? Because you respect everyone, everyone will respect you; If you care about everyone, everyone will care about you; If you thank everyone, everyone will thank you. To know how to do this is to know people. Thank you!

So don't blame your parents, it has nothing to do with them.

I think there are two reasons why you feel that your shortcomings are caused by your parents:

Spoil: Parents spoil and spoil their children too much, often following his temper, allowing him to take advantage and let him have nothing to do. If he accidentally goes against his wishes, he can't stand it. Even if a child makes a mistake, his parents don't have the heart to scold him, but the child dares to contradict his parents. So I gradually developed the habit of arrogance. They dare not offend others, but they are unscrupulous in front of their parents. Over time, I really feel that my parents are old and dull, and I can't feel his rudeness. Even blatantly treat my dad and my brother as vulgar people, unwilling to face them face to face.

Often influenced by others: some people are joked by friends: "Look at you ugly." People will say, "Oh, what can I do? My parents gave it to me! " Although such a joke is a good reason, it is easy to be influenced by children who are mentally unstable or don't understand the world, leaving a deep impression in their minds. Not only the people around us, but now the network information is so developed that there are too many negative information, and a little carelessness will lead you astray.