If you don't have time to tutor your children, is it a good choice to send them to custody?

Sending a custody class can only be said to be the last choice. Unless one-on-one service can be provided, it is basically ineffective to expect a trusteeship class to tutor children.

I say this mainly because I know exactly how much time and energy I need to help my children with their homework.

The daughter is in the second grade and the twin sons are in the first grade. It usually took half an hour to tutor my daughter last year, but now it usually takes two hours to complete it with my son.

Of course, this has something to do with the amount of homework assigned by the teacher, but the most important thing is that the tutoring homework should be targeted, not to say that one is also tutoring two, or tutoring is as simple as that. Especially for children in lower grades, sometimes they can't understand the questions, so they have to talk about them, check them after they finish, and correct them. In short, if you encounter reciting, it is a laborious task to watch your child recite.

In the custody class, the teacher can only guarantee the completion of the homework. As for whether the children have mastered it, some custody classes even look at the answers directly, and there is no counseling at all. After a long time, it will delay the children's study.

It's not that all the hosting classes are not good, but the service is definitely linked to fees. Nowadays, many custody classes rent a house in a residential area and recruit one or two teachers to pick up and drop off their children. Their function is more like looking after children, and they can't be expected to play much role in children's study.

Therefore, children, especially those in lower grades, still need parents to invest more energy. Even if you don't have time to send your children to the custody class, you should pay more attention to your studies after work or on weekends, instead of pinning your hopes entirely on the custody class.

For older children, it is even more impossible to expect the trusteeship class to help with homework. Going to one-on-one cram school is a better choice.

I think if you really don't have time to tutor your child, it's really a good choice to send it to the trusteeship, but you should choose a better institution for the trusteeship so that the child can really get a good tutor. If the child is already in junior high school, there is no point in guardianship. You have to go to a remedial class, which is a cram school. Choose one-on-one directly if conditions are good.

The neighbor's children are in the third grade, and their parents have long working hours, so they have no time to take care of and coach their children. The children have been taken care of by their grandfather. The child has been in a free-range state since the first grade. He didn't do his homework and came last in the exam. The teacher is also helpless. Communicating with parents can't get good results. Finally the teacher gave up the child and let him develop.

Later, in the fourth grade, the grandfather of the child had something to leave and went back to his hometown, and the child was suddenly left unattended. Then his mother enrolled the child in a custody class and went straight to school every day until her mother got off work at around nine o'clock. After living like this for a semester, I found that the child has changed and his academic performance has been much better. He doesn't usually go to the custody class, but he is also willing to do his homework at home. More importantly, the child has gained weight. I used to eat badly with my grandfather. He likes to buy ham sausage and chilled fish balls. )

Take this child as an example. I think parents really don't have time for counseling. It's really a good choice to send it to custody. However, we can't completely pin our hopes on the nursing class. When we have time, we should spend more time with our children. The growth of children is closely related to the companionship of parents.

I think this question has two meanings.

First, if you don't have time to tutor your children, it's not a good choice to send them to custody. Because the best education comes from parents, even the best trusteeship can't replace parents. No time to tutor children is an excuse. Time is squeezed out like toothpaste. What is more important than children's study? I heard a story about a father who was too busy with business all day to take care of his children's education. As a result, in his later years, his father's 30-year hard work was defeated by the poor second generation in less than a year. Although the story is a bit typical, it can also explain some truth. Children's education is also the most important investment, which is related to the happiness of parents in the second half of their lives. In short, parents who have no time to tutor their children are irresponsible parents.

Secondly, if there is really no time, or parents are unable to tutor their children, sending them to custody is also a remedial measure, but it depends on the quality of custody. Is the custodian institution not standardized? Is the management strict? Is science unscientific? Is the head teacher responsible? These aspects are very important. Parents should ask themselves these questions before choosing a custody institution, and screen out a good custody institution suitable for children, because all kinds of custody institutions on the market now are pure fish and pure pearls, which need parents' critical eyes to identify. If it is a formal trusteeship, the management is scientific and strict, and the teacher has a sense of responsibility, if it is not as good as the parents' own counseling, there is no way out.

Counseling children, parents determine that if they are busy with work or have no time, it is a good choice to find a fully qualified and responsible custodian.

Children are still young, it is their nature to be playful, and they lack self-discipline in doing homework. When it is sent to the custody, someone will be responsible, and friends of the same age will accompany it and do homework together, and the children will feel very happy.

Teachers in the custody class can also help children answer questions, improve homework efficiency and not delay their studies.

After attending the custody class, the teacher is responsible for safety, and parents no longer worry about their children running around and worrying about safety. Parents can also do their own things with peace of mind, and their children and work do not make mistakes.

My colleague Xiao Zhang and his wife are both white-collar workers and managers. They are both very busy. Their daughter was sent to a care class near her home from the first grade of primary school until she graduated from primary school. When junior high school started this year, this girl was admitted to a good middle school in the city.

Colleague Xiao Zhang and his wife did just that. After school, the children are sent to the trusteeship class to do their homework and have dinner. At eight o'clock in the evening, they take their children home, and then they devote themselves to company, spend their parent-child time with them, read books, tell jokes and play games together. In short, they communicate and play with them every day.

Therefore, it is good for children's academic, physical and psychological development.

Therefore, if parents are really busy with their work and help their children with their homework, they can put their children in a care class and let professional teachers take charge, but they must have a fixed time with their children every day to let them feel that their parents are really busy with their work, but they really love themselves. In this way, with a fixed parent-child time, children will develop well psychologically, feel full of love, and let children develop in an all-round way in study, body and psychology.

Children's education should be the responsibility of the school, and parents have no responsibility for counseling, so don't worry about it. English in the first grade of Beishangguang Primary School should also be taught by school teachers, students should learn by themselves, and parents should play a supervisory role. The key now is that Chinese textbooks downplay Chinese Pinyin, which is wrong. Teaching Chinese Pinyin is fast, and teachers should improve it (there are great problems in teaching Chinese Pinyin). Parenting education is wrong and failed education!

Since I don't have time, I'm going to take care of it. I have no choice. choose Whether it is good or not depends on the level of custody. I have my own time and have been tutoring my children by myself. I cherish this time. The child has grown very fast and is now in the fifth grade. At that time, he will live on campus in junior high school, and there is no condition for tutoring. So if you can, you must cherish the parent-child time. The past cannot be traced.

Generally, they will be sent to custody as a last resort. Because trusteeship is actually a bunch of children learning by themselves, the teachers have limited teaching, and the children also influence each other.

Some tutors are too lazy to explain and tell their children the answer directly. As a result, children can't do their homework at all, and the exam is a tragedy.

If you can, you can still help yourself, but now many parents have to go to work, but grandparents are willing but unable, and they don't know how to help with their homework. It's not good for parents not to do their homework when they come back from work. Therefore, everything must be weighed before deciding whether to go to custody.

I think it's really good to keep the children in custody if the economic conditions permit and there is no time. If children are in custody, they can develop good study habits, and if they don't understand, they can also let the custody teacher teach them. Learning efficiency is also high. If you don't take care of it, tutoring at home is really hard and troublesome. You are also worried that the method is not correct, and the children may not understand and listen to you. That's what my children do. One word from the teacher is better than ten words from you. It is a wise choice to put them away.

There seems to be no choice in this question, and I have no time. Looking for a nanny is the same as looking for a custodian. If the child is older, the first choice is to send custody. If the child is too young, there is also an age limit for custody. When I first had children, I chatted with a friend who was far away in another city. She said: Taking care of grandparents is definitely better than taking care of them? The same is true in life, so I think the problem is not whether to send custody, but to choose a reliable custody.

I don't have time to tutor my children. I can send them to remedial classes. However, parents should still take time to care about their children's performance and study in the remedial class and ask how their children are doing in the remedial class. I really don't have time to choose remedial classes, but I still try my best to spend time with my children and improve the parent-child relationship. After all, parent-child relationship is the foundation of everything.