The baby will walk if he doesn't climb. What's wrong with parental guidance?

Crawling is an important skill, but some babies will skip it directly, and some babies don't like crawling.

In this regard, parents have their own words, and some say that crawling requires systematic training; Some people say that crawling is a child's instinct. As long as you reach the age of months, it will happen naturally without guidance.

But every stage of children's growth needs scientific and active guidance, not only with methods, but also with love to deal with various problems.

"My baby doesn't like climbing mountains. What can I do? " My baby loves to leave. In fact, there is only one reason for these helpless excuses, and that is to miss the sensitive period of crawling.

Therefore, when encountering such problems, parents should first find the reasons from themselves.

0 1 Unfortunately, children's motor skills are a systematic and coherent development process. The signals from the brain let the children sit and climb independently, then walk, jump and run ... It's a pity to miss any one.

Crawling is an important stage of children's development. Even if some children don't show much signs of crawling, some sit still and have small hips.

Only at this time, there are often children who like frogs to sit with them, because the line of sight is too high. As long as you climb, your line of sight will be lowered and you will cry and protest. Other parents like to hold their children up for a while, so that their eyes become higher and they are naturally more reluctant to climb.

I have seen an old man boasting smugly in the community: my child is eight or nine months old and will leave before he can climb. How awesome.

In fact, it is not a good thing to crawl less, which will lead to insufficient leg strength, crooked walking and easy wrestling. Even if you learn to walk first, you won't make much progress by the age of 1, and you will soon be surpassed by children of the same age.

Crawling is the beginning of exploration, which will stimulate children's curiosity and make them understand things more actively; If children don't crawl, their adaptability is poor, and their athletic ability declines, which affects communication.

If you have missed the sensitive period of children's crawling, but you still have a chance to make up for it when you are 3-4 years old, then the child can already control his body. He will like to drill holes and climb high, and even climb stairs and chase things like a baby.

On the one hand, it makes them feel more secure, on the other hand, it makes up for the parents' neglect of crawling signals during the sensitive period of crawling.

This is a kind of psychological appeal, and it is also a feature of spiral rise in sensitive period. Therefore, parents are advised to simply let their children climb enough.

The related statement that the baby crawls is refuted. 1, crawling is natural without teaching.

This view is correct, but we should also know that crawling is related to walking, jumping and running in the later stage. Why do some adults wrestle underground? Will you turn right when you go forward? Easy to get out of control in some spinning games? That's why.

According to the survey, more than 85% of children with sensory impairment are due to mistakes in a certain sports link, and crawling is the most easily overlooked.

When you grow up, you can climb. The key is that the symbols that can climb do not meet the standards and rules.

2. It is hereditary not to climb.

Some parents themselves don't like sports, are afraid of getting hurt, and are good at protecting their children. They are always worried about raising their heads and hurting their necks, rolling over and pressing their arms, crawling and bumping, and walking and wrestling. ...

And a series of worries are pushed to heredity, not too anxious.

When a child comes to this world for the first time, everything is a brand-new experience. Don't impose ideas.

Children don't like sports.

If children don't climb, they will be labeled as "inactive". In fact, crawling is just a kind of athletic ability. Do not generalize. Take this opportunity to hug the child. Over time, the child really won't climb.

Children can't crawl, mostly because of their parents. In fact, children can't climb well, which is related to the way parents guide them. The wrong training method will make children at a loss and learn not to climb.

Some parents basically rely on shouting when training their children to crawl: Come on, baby, come here, and the children will not move.

Others are full of enthusiasm at first, teasing them with toys. As long as the child stumbles, he immediately stops teasing and laughs like a joke, causing the child to be completely distracted.

Some parents force their children to crawl when their state is not high, which makes them feel resistant. This rude training method will only breed fear.

Other parents encourage their children to crawl. As long as they can crawl a little, they begin to guide crawling greatly, increase training, and try their best to push the child's little feet so that the child's hands and knees can support them. As a result, their children will only rock back and forth in the same place, which is very uncomfortable.

Some parents think that children can climb as long as there is space, but if the space is not wide enough and there are too many sundries, children are reluctant to climb.

So the preparation environment must be ready, and dangerous goods such as bolts should be taken away.

There must be an interest in crawling, otherwise the child will cooperate at first, but it will not last long because it is boring. Training without interaction is boring.

Specific operation of crawling training: 1, 4 months ago.

Can be prepared to crawl, mainly to exercise the strength of the neck, arms, waist and legs.

The baby's head can be lifted to about 45 degrees at about 2 months, and can be lifted to 90 degrees at the end of 4 months. If this standard is not reached, it means that the baby's neck strength is not enough. Every day, he insists on massaging by hand, practicing lying prone and looking up at toys, black and white calories, toys with natural sounds and so on.

You can also do passive training, practice 3-5 times a day for 30 seconds or 1 minute, and keep practicing for 1-2 weeks, which is very effective.

In addition, from about 2 months, when you get up every day, pull your wrist and practice sitting up with your baby. Parents give their thumbs to their children, and the other four points hold their children's wrists for protection, and then hold your wrists.

It is recommended to practice holding single wrist first, and then practice holding double wrists after 4 months, with 4 eight beats each time, which can be practiced many times.

In the process of sitting up, the baby's neck, hands and waist will also exert their strength at the same time to enhance the arm strength. However, safety is still the most important thing, so each practice time should not be too long, just 15 seconds.

Waist strength mainly refers to turning over. For example, parents use their own arms to protect one side of the child's body, and then the other hand holds the child's other shoulder and turns over with the help of the child's own strength.

You can also make spring rolls with bath towels to exercise your child's body from side to side.

Leg strength is passive gymnastics, tree exercise or pedaling. You can also put a ball under your child's feet and let him exercise his leg strength with a pedal ball.

Be careful not to put it too far, otherwise the child will be easily frustrated.

2, 5-8 months

Mainly to exercise the coordination of the whole body. At this time, parents should consciously let their children practice sitting still like little frogs, and then Doby them with scarves and toys to make them have the desire to control their bodies.

Of course, instead of letting children sit alone for too long, they use toads to adjust coordination, and use the strength of arms, neck, legs and waist to control their bodies and achieve sports effects.

At this stage, children can also feel passive progress, such as letting them lie on the mat, and then propping their feet with their knees, so that they have the will to reach the toys in the distance and the impulse to climb.

3,9-12 months

If the previous training is done well, children can basically crawl at this time, and games such as parent-child crawling, tunnel crawling and running to dad or mirror can be added.

Probably the operation is like this:

Dad is in front, mother and children climb together and run to dad to see who climbs fast. Turn a clean paper box that is not used at home into a tunnel, wrap both sides of the paper box, and put children's favorite toys in it for them to climb. Put the child in front of the mirror and use the child's curiosity to generate crawling impulses. 12 months, children can walk with one hand or play obstacle crawling games. Parents' bodies are obstacles, so can pillows and blankets.

There are many benefits of crawling, so parents should not ignore them. Sometimes it's really not that children don't like climbing, but that the environment is not in place. It's a pity not to let children miss the sensitive period of crawling.