Why should I spank you?

My eight-year-old son told me excitedly, "I sold Transformers." I was surprised and quickly asked: "Who did you sell it to? Have you told him?" Because I knew he had been bothered by this matter for several days. Last week, he spent a lot of money from his classmates - almost his monthly pocket money to buy a Transformers. I don't know much about it, I just know that it is a very fashionable toy. It is said that the classmate's uncle bought it from abroad. Brought back. But when I went home to play, I discovered that one of the fixed shafts was broken. It was glued on and was not glued firmly at all. It broke after a turn. The son angrily said that he would give it back and would not buy it. At that time, I comforted him, "Forget it, daddy will try to stick it on you again. Maybe your classmate didn't mean it." At this time, my son asked me proudly, "Can't you guess, I sold it to the children So handsome. But I didn’t tell him that it was bad and he shouldn’t buy it.” My eyes widened when I heard this. “What? Xiaoshuai is your friend, how could you do this?” I was so angry that I jumped up and without saying a word, I slapped my buttocks hard, and my son cried in grievance. Of course it's not appropriate to hit my son, and what's even more inappropriate is that I inexplicably took out the anger I had been holding back on my son. When I got off work in the afternoon, a group of people gathered around the door of the unit. I saw in the middle of the crowd a girl of seventeen or eighteen years old. She wore a pair of glasses in a polite manner. She was dressed in a very tacky style and looked a little dirty. She looked half down. Keep your head down and don't speak. There was a paper sign hanging around his neck, with the words "I want to study" written on it, and a few lines of small words below, to the effect that the family suffered a disaster, his mother passed away, his father was sick, his two younger brothers and sisters were in junior high school and primary school, and he I was admitted to a certain Normal College, but my family was unable to pay for the tuition. I asked for support, etc. Attached is a copy of the admission notice. Some of the people around him shook their heads and sighed, some gave generously, and some were dismissive and said it was a lie. The first thing that moved me was that the words on the sign were so beautifully written. It was hard to tell that the girl was very pretty. I have seen this kind of thing so often that I feel disgusted from the bottom of my heart. But I still hesitate, what if it is true? It is very common for a rural child to be admitted to school but unable to study. When I went to college, I also received support from many neighbors and relatives. So I leaned forward and asked, "Little girl, how much does your college tuition cost?" She hesitated and muttered "I don't know" in a low voice. I heard clearly and asked deliberately: "Please speak louder, how much do you want?" She told me "five hundred yuan" without raising her head. There was some confusion in the crowd. Five hundred dollars! What a joke. There is no one who charges 500 yuan in tuition. You don’t understand the market very well. Unless this school is run by your biological father, I’m afraid even your stepfather can’t do it. I remained calm and asked, "Little girl, I've paid for your tuition, but I don't have that much money with me. Please write down your home address for me and I'll send it to you." I heard Someone behind me was saying, "What a good man." This time she finally raised her head, a little confused, maybe she was lucky enough to meet a big fool. She knelt down with a thump, "Uncle, you are really my lifesaver. My tuition fee is only two hundred yuan short, so you just give me two hundred yuan and you will win. You should have two hundred yuan, right? I will spend my whole life." I will never forget your great kindness." She was quite generous and gave me a 40% discount. I said angrily: "You should never forget me in your life. Get out of here now. You're lying here, I'll send you to the police station." The onlookers suddenly cheered, "It's not shameful for such a big girl to lie to people! These days, there are so many people, no matter what." "This is actually my first time! Being cheated happened more than ten years ago. I had just entered college that year, and when I was transferring at Beijing Railway Station, I met a young woman with a child in her arms. She told me that she lived in Chengde, and that her wallet had been stolen at the train station, and she didn’t have a penny left. She asked me if I could Can't buy her a ticket. It was the first time I traveled far away from home, the first time I entered Beijing. I was so excited that I wanted to jump and walk. Who knew that I encountered such a thing in my excitement, and I lost my mind. Help her, eight yuan for a train ticket is not a small amount of money for me; don't help her, I can't bear it. The child was sobbing in the arms of the adults, and his nose was dripping with tears, pitifully. When I was in a dilemma, I found a young soldier next to me. He also heard the woman's plea. When our eyes met, there was a way. I said let's help her. I'll pay five yuan and you pay three yuan. Without saying anything, the soldier took out five yuan and said he could buy some food for the child with the rest. I was very excited and wanted to buy a ticket for her, but the woman quickly said no, I won’t bother you anymore. She also asked us to leave our address and said she would send us money when we got back. How could we leave our address? The woman reminded us to be careful of thieves and left with a lot of gratitude.

The remaining soldiers and I spoke with great respect to each other. The matter should have ended here, but strangely enough, half a year later I went home for the winter vacation and transferred trains at Beijing Station, and I ran into this woman again. Unfortunately, she no longer recognized me. She still looked miserable and said the same words as she did half a year ago. I couldn't tell whether the child in her arms was the same one half a year ago, but this time her hometown became Xuchang. I guess the ticket price in Xuchang is definitely not eight yuan. I was so angry at the time that I wanted to slap her twice and scolded her rudely. Unexpectedly, her attitude was quite good and she didn't look angry at all. She even said with a smile that we were quite destined. At that time, I immediately thought of that soldier who was as "noble" as me. I wonder what he would think at this moment. Maybe he thought I was this woman's "sitter". The feeling of being cheated and fooled is unforgettable. I don’t think anyone wants to be cheated, because the feeling of being cheated is really not fun. Some people may be in dire straits due to disaster, illness or other reasons, and are eager for help, but even if there are a thousand reasons, you cannot deceive other people's feelings. My son stopped crying, and I was done with my anger. I apologized to my son honestly. I told him about my past experiences, told him why he should not lie to others, and also told him to be more cautious and not to be deceived by others. I really want to give all those who lie to people a hard slap on their butts, so that they can remember the feeling of pain. But it wasn't my son who deserved the beating.