Qingpingle: Love, not love Queen Cao. How did Queen Cao Can win a bad hand?

On the surface, it is to take Zhang Jingnv to the "perfume contest". Jacky Zhang Korea came to disturb Cao Queen, but Cao Queen didn't let Jacky Zhang Korea take this opportunity to fall for it. Queen Cao seems to lose under the attack of Zhang Zhaolong, but she always wins. So, with officials, she can win a bad hand. She knows how to protect herself. Hummer challenged Cao Cao's authority more than once.

The first time was when she was just pregnant. She was very sad. She didn't trust anyone and insisted on seeing Mari-Zhen. Now Mari-Zhen is dealing with political affairs outside the palace. The queen advised her, but she just wouldn't listen. She even refuted the queen Cao Cao. In the face of her state, Queen Cao was neither angry nor punished, but calmly accompanied her to wait for her return.

The wisdom of Queen Cao is that she knows how to protect herself. When you are threatened by their ugly behavior, don't argue, don't get angry, and don't try to educate them, because once you see them, you will lower yourself!

An online joke goes like this: someone laughs at you severely, and you fight back at him severely. Someone looks down on you for no reason, and you look down on him immediately. Someone shows off in front of you, and you immediately prove that you are better; When a person is indifferent to you, you will soon alienate him. Listen, people you hate can easily turn you into people you hate the most. That's what bad people do to you.

If you are human, there are four suggestions: don't fight with pigs. Don't go into the pigsty. Don't hit a pig like a pig. You see, knowing this, Queen Cao Can avoided Jack Hamm's power and kept her status as queen. She knows how to keep a cool attitude. Cao Hou told Mari-Zhen that she hoped that Mari-Zhen would arrange for Jia Jiaoxi to come back, so that everyone would think that "Jack Jack" was "Jack Jack" and even the queen was afraid to take care of it.

She said it was the best solution. When you meet an uneducated person, the correct way is to try to avoid him and try not to become like him. Cao Gui said: "Cao Gui is very strong." Cao Gui said: "Cao Gui is very powerful. Don't lose your manners, others won't hit you.

Zhang' Socket' Han wanted to borrow the queen's etiquette honor, but was agreed by Queen Cao. By the way, blame Zhang' Jack' Han and the Queen. Later, I disrespectfully told Mari-Zhen that I thought this was the best way to deal with it, and I didn't think I was wrong. Mari-Zhen didn't go to see the Queen, and the Queen didn't go to Mari-Zhen. Because she has self-esteem to rely on.

Because she is very graceful, no one can blame Queen Cao Cao. Only yield. Remember the sentence that Liu E taught Guo Hou? If you want to be afraid of others, you can take them away first. To gain the respect of others, we must first have the virtue of persuading others. Queen Cao Cao did so. She comforted herself with the books she had read. Queen Cao was not loved by Zhao Zhen. As a woman, her heart is lonely. But she is willing to give everything for Mari-Zhen, and her heart is rich.

I think Queen Cao's attitude is very good: I'm glad you came, and I'm not sorry you left. Everything I give is voluntary, and I won't say anything. I would be very grateful if you would return my favor. If you didn't, I wouldn't be discouraged. Until one day, I don't want to love you so much, so let's stop being generous and live happily.

Cao Cao later said to Mari-Zhen, "From the day I got married, I knew I was not an official wife, but the mother of Dasong." Very impressive. Some people want to know why Queen Cao Cao advised her officials. Why can't she be gentle? Because she knows that even officials can put on airs.

You think that in the first few seconds before you send a text message, a little * * * will dig your lungs and help your blood boil. How many people have accepted your love, and how many people take your warmth for granted?

You are afraid of offending others, making demands, saying the wrong thing, being silent, being ignored and being sad. You respect everyone. Do you get the respect you deserve?

When you withdraw excess enthusiasm, put away unnecessary care and gradually improve your ability, you will gradually find that you are actually respected! Mari-Zhen doesn't like the queen. If she obeys blindly, Mari-Zhen fears that she will soon be left behind.

But now, she doesn't like to talk to Zhao Zhenxiu, and she doesn't want to say it generously, which makes Mari-Zhen dare not look down upon it. She has never been in Mari-Zhen's favor. What she gets from her heart is respect for Mari-Zhen, and it depends on respect for herself. Queen Cao seems to have a bad hand, but she played a card for herself.