Without self-awareness, thick-skinned people are disgusting

Without self-awareness, thick-skinned people are so disgusting

One of my relatives is either too bad or talks too badly, and she talks too much. I am fatter, she is better than me. A little lighter but I'm taller than her, actually they're almost the same. Until one day I said, "Those who are thin look really good in clothes and I want to lose weight." Actually it’s just a joke, I don’t dare to lose too much weight. My anemia is very serious.

I often fainted a few years ago and it got better after giving birth to my second child. I still feel dizzy from time to time. I went to check the doctor and said It's still caused by anemia but it's much better than before. As a relative of mine, just because of my joke, people in my community now know that I am desperate to lose weight, and some people ask me about my weight loss experience. I am completely confused. She spends her days chatting with the old ladies when she has nothing to do, and she does some small business at the gate of the community. Every time I buy groceries or meat, she just says: Hey, sister, you are losing weight and still eat meat. I was speechless. Sometimes when I didn’t buy any meat, she would say: Hey, my sister really lost weight and didn’t even eat any meat. No matter what I buy, she can associate it with weight loss, which is particularly annoying.

Now when I buy groceries, I go back through the back door and would rather take a detour. I told her clearly that I didn't lose weight, so don't say that. She just said it as a joke, so don't take it seriously! Will continue next time. In her eyes, every word can be a joke. Today, if the daughter-in-law is dressed up, she is not serious. Tomorrow, if her son is too thin, he is a sucker. Her stall has been opened several times. That mouth of hers is so disgusting. I just ignore her and don’t speak when we meet. It’s so annoying