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I don't think the little girl is playing with your feelings. After all, when you are young, you will feel that the sky is falling at a little thing. Because we can't be financially independent, parents' opinions are actually very destructive. Boys may be bolder, and girls may be scared by their parents. In reality, there are many things that boys get married regardless of their parents' opinions, while girls get married less regardless of their parents' opinions. Even if there is, it is probably after having a job.

In fact, what I want to say is that no matter what you do in this world, you must have the right time, place and people. It is impossible to do things well by one will alone. A successful marriage needs love, economic foundation, tolerance and patience. Simply getting along well is just one of many factors. If you don't believe in love because of this frustration, it's actually too much to make a mountain out of a molehill In fact, there is nothing to believe in love. You have to let the little girl choose between you and her parents who have loved her for 20 years. If she really chooses you, then such a woman really can't have it! The so-called love is supreme, in fact, from another angle, it is also the extreme of ingratitude, and even the feelings of parents are not taken care of. If she meets someone she likes better in the future, she will leave you and the children alone.

But that doesn't mean you have no hope. A friend of mine had some feelings with one of his classmates in high school, and he never had the right conditions. This matter dragged on for about eight years, and they just got married recently. What have parents opposed in the past eight years? Both of them have been in love several times, and have had numerous setbacks and misunderstandings, such as finding a job and changing jobs. Finally, we finally came together. So if you give up and complain about others just because the little girl's parents object and hesitate, then your so-called "love" will really have no result!

In the future, you may have to go through many broken things, such as your wife being cheated by a young lady, having an affair with others, fighting between buyers at home, and fighting between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law ... Now this little thing is really nothing. I just want to tell you that every so-called happy marriage you see has many broken things. It's just that these people focus on how to solve problems, instead of breaking up, divorcing and resenting with a sentence "I don't believe in love". No one can handle such a relationship.

The last word of advice: when the conditions are not ripe, just let go and don't make too much unpleasantness. Then when the time is right, you still have a chance, a chance to win. If you give up on yourself and toss away the other person's good feelings, your fate will be completely finished. Life is poor and white. When it goes well, we should be aggressive, and when it doesn't, we should try our best to minimize the loss. Love, like everything in the world, is nothing special. Don't have unrealistic illusions. This is the first step in everything!