Why did my boyfriend take me to meet my parents?

Question 1: My boyfriend is taking me to see my parents. What should I do? My advice is not to go. Let his parents and relatives meet, but there will be no shortage of meat. I just instinctively feel that there is no need to watch it now.

As for whether you can last long, you may despise me if I say so, but I don't think it will last long. You'll know when you go to college. When people go up high, they will meet people with much higher quality than they are now. If you are a man and he is a woman, it doesn't matter, but if you are a woman and he is a man, I don't guarantee that you will dislike him in the future. I saw many breakups when I was in college.

Anyway, sister, I advise you not to go. Think about the future. If it works. You can't go at any time in the future. If you don't succeed, you can get away with it without being told.

Question 2: My boyfriend and I have known each other for a month, and he will take me to his house to meet my parents. What happened? The core of this problem lies in you. Do you want to see his parents now? If you think he is an enterprising person who can grow up with your help and you are willing to talk about his feelings, you can consider meeting his parents. If you think the communication time is too short, you have the right to refuse, then tell the truth. You can say, "Our communication time is too short now. Seeing parents now will make the old people misunderstand that our feelings have reached the point of talking about marriage, and now we are just considering whether to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Is it irresponsible for you and your parents to meet your parents so early? Let's talk a little longer and give me time to consider whether I want to meet your parents. " For example, it is not too late to say goodbye to your parents after three months or six months. Don't be afraid to hurt someone, because if you don't have the heart to hurt each other, you will hurt each other at the same time, because sooner or later you will not be able to stand each other's childishness, and then this kind of injury will hurt two people more, especially each other. So remember, if you don't force yourself or each other, you can get the greatest happiness and strive for the greatest benefit for yourself (this benefit is not financial, but emotional). Of course, it is understandable to meet the parents of the other party, because meeting the parents of the other party in the form of ordinary friends can let you know in advance whether the parents of the other party get along well or not, and if you really become friends in the future, it can also prevent your in-laws from calling you arrogant and unfriendly in the future. Of course, the decision is still up to you. If you really don't want to see it or think it's too early, it's better to politely refuse it than to do it reluctantly!

Question 3: My boyfriend will take me back to his home to meet my parents. Should I go or not? What does he mean? 10 You think you have a good relationship with your boyfriend and trust him. You can meet your parents, which shows that he is sincere to you.

Question 4: I am 16. My boyfriend wants to take me to meet my parents. What should I do? Hello, I'm glad to answer your question.

You are too young, aren't you?

How old is your boyfriend? I guess he is older than you. Maybe he is eager to get his parents' approval. Do you know him? What do you know about him? Think about it. Have you reached this level with him? Think it over before you decide. That proves that boys are sure of you. Go, why not dig? A boy will not easily bring his girlfriend home to meet his parents. If the boy does it, it means that he is ready to fall in love with you ... Maybe he likes you very much and wants to get permission from his parents as soon as possible, so that he can communicate with you openly and fairly and meet your parents. Actually, it's nothing. Don't think too much. He just wanted to. Being confident in falling in love and taking care of your girlfriend does not necessarily mean getting married and having children.

I'm not sure how long you've been dating and how effective your emotional foundation is. If that boy really loves you and cares about you, it doesn't matter to me, mainly because he has long-term persistence in love, but because you are too young, your body is not mature in endocrine development and your mind is not mature, you don't think things very well. If you think your boyfriend is nice, you want to be with him for a long time. So you see her parents should be natural and graceful, be polite at home, and be polite and respectful to the younger generation. However, you are a minor and still in school, so you should keep a good sense of proportion and study without conflict.

Finally, I think since this boy dares to take you to see your parents, it is enough to show his courage. Cherish your innocence and understand love in a hurry.

Relatives are the most important things in life ... but when a person grows up, not all decisions are made by parents ... just know that you love your parents ...! ! ! ! ... your own way ... wrong or right ... this is your own way! ! ! ~~~

Question 5: What does it mean for a man to take you home to meet your parents? Generally speaking, if a person introduces another person to his parents and family, it shows his psychological acceptance of this person, which is also a declaration: I like this person, please bless us!

As for the usual lack of contact and communication, this is not a problem. When you need it, who will drop what you are doing and run to your side to help you?

The song "Plain is true", romantic dicks, flowers and moons, diamond ring nails, etc., can only be said to be bait.

Question 6: What should I pay attention to when I bring my boyfriend to meet my parents? I don't know much about your specific situation, so I can only give you an example.

A good friend of mine is in the same situation as you. She brought her boyfriend home for the first time and brought many gifts, which were both practical and fancy. Finally, my friend's mother kicked her out of the house with a broom and said, "As long as I can open my eyes, you can't marry my daughter!" " "

That day, my friend and her mother had a big fight, and then she ran to her boyfriend's house crying. She said that her mother was so bad to him, and in order to show that she was on his side, she decided to fight to the death with her mother and not go home.

Then her boyfriend took her hand and walked around binjiang road, sang her some songs, hugged her, and then sent her home. When she was sent downstairs, he told her, "don't worry about your mother, she is doing it for your own good." As for me, I believe I can impress her. "

Later, her boyfriend often went to her house to see her. Of course, he also went to see her mother. At first, he was embarrassed and often turned away. Later, gradually, he let him in. He is very diligent. As soon as he arrived at her house, he did housework, washed, cooked and swept the floor to see what was missing at home. He will bring it next time. ...

They have been married for more than a year now. My friend's mother likes this son-in-law very much. Outsiders who don't have a good relationship saw the three of them together and thought they were mother and daughter-in-law.

What you want to buy really depends on what your parents like or lack, and it's best to be practical. In addition, this is also the most important point. It's really unnecessary to buy things. Whose parents are still short of gifts and can't take their marriage partner home. The purpose is to make parents like it and reassure them that their children will marry this stranger in front of them and get happiness. So, the performance of your boyfriend. Instead of thinking about what to buy, think about how to speak more calmly, how to dress more calmly, how to answer more tactfully, in a word-what can you do to please your parents. Let your parents ignore this shortcoming of his thinness and see more advantages instead. This is the key.

Question 7: What should my boyfriend do if he wants to take me to meet his parents? How to be a man? Let nature take its course, don't pretend to be diligent, or you will be tired later, but be polite.

Question 8: Why is my boyfriend in such a hurry to take me home to meet my parents? Explain that he cares about you, don't think too much! If a man wants to introduce you to his parents or friends, it shows that he is satisfied with you, then what are you hesitating about? Since you don't dislike each other, open your heart and accept him!

Question 9: Why didn't my boyfriend mention taking me home to meet my parents? Don't worry, after all, you've only known each other for five months, and it's time to talk about marriage when you meet your parents. Can you guarantee that you will marry this man? Also, don't doubt each other's sincerity to you at will. It would be nice to be more tolerant. Some people are worried about not taking you to see your parents.

Question 10: My boyfriend said he would take me home to meet his parents. Why? Taking it back to your parents is an affirmation to you. He thinks he knows you. He wants his parents to know such an excellent girl as you and agree with you. If your boyfriend never takes you to meet your parents, you know that feeling is really bad.