My girlfriend said I envy Ji for making more money. What kind of mentality is this?

It is possible that what she potentially means is that she, a college graduate from a regular school, can't find a job. She eats at home every day and might as well earn money as a chicken. I saw on the Internet that people who build atomic bombs are not as good as those who sell tea eggs. It's all the same, and the mentality has collapsed. I feel that I have been reading books for nothing for so many years. This phenomenon is not a case, it is a social problem and my own problem. It is said that the environment changes people. If you can't adapt to the current living environment and change with the changes of the environment, you will be eliminated by society sooner or later. Now she needs someone to patiently guide her to a correct outlook on life, guide her out of her abnormal outlook on life, build up confidence, give full play to her skills and make contributions to the development of socialism.