It’s easy to share joys but endure hardships

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?Sharing joys and sufferings?, like a pair of lovers, often appear together in our field of vision. People usually use it to describe a beautiful emotional life. , and not everything in the world goes as one wishes, and occasionally things go against expectations. Just like, you are in the snow, but someone may not come to deliver carbon.

Meizi was the beauty of our class when she was in school. Almost half of the boys in the class expressed their admiration for her, either openly or secretly. I was one of them. At that time, I actually couldn't tell what I liked about her. I just remembered that she loved to laugh, and her cheeks would turn slightly red every time she laughed. We were roommates for a while. When we were roommates, I often told her jokes, and she was very kind to me. No matter what joke I told, she would smile from ear to ear with a very low laugh point. And I am very happy to do this. Seeing her smile makes me happy all morning. That period is my best memory of my middle school days. I don’t know if it’s a crush. Unfortunately, we never had close contact or even held hands.

Although I haven’t seen Meizi for a long time, I know a little bit about her current situation. This is thanks to my good friend and classmate Zhang Tuo. The semi-annual gatherings of classmates have made everyone more emotionally united, and also added a lot of things for everyone to talk about after dinner in their boring lives. Zhang Tuo would come over and share interesting stories with me every time after attending a party. The former squad leader is now involved in the underworld; the study committee member has become a rich man; the four eyes who used to take a single-digit math test have become the owner of a clothing store, etc. etc.

I don’t want to participate in that kind of event, because I feel that everyone becomes unreal when I get there. The shy and weak female classmate started smoking cigarettes, got tattoos, and called herself my mother. When he was young, he loved to play pranks and get along with everyone, but he put on airs at the dinner table. What everyone said seemed to be divorced from their own lives and reality, just like holding another imaginative meeting to see whose future was well knitted and whose panic was perfect.

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I care more about plums than these.

Zhang Tuo told me before that after Meizi dated her first boyfriend for three years, she broke up with him because she couldn't stand him spending all day playing games online and neglecting her. After graduating from college, she accepted Huang Qi, the young man who had been chasing her since middle school, because only after graduating from college did she understand that Huang Qi was different from the other people who chased her. Many of her suitors used to create romance intentionally or unintentionally. Some would buy her a bouquet of flowers on her birthday; some would make a beautiful PPT for her to watch on Valentine's Day. While Huang Qi's classmates were still looking for jobs to earn money to buy a house, Huang Qi gave her a key to a new house on her birthday, which made Meizi feel that happiness came too suddenly. In fact, I also want to say that Meizi is too money-worshipping. She was not like that before. Zhang Tuo looked at me with contempt and told me that if you don't have such ability, don't say sour grapes. Indeed, is it true that just because Huang Qi is richer than other boys, he is not outstanding? During the years from middle school to graduation from university, Mei Zi also took note of his persistence. The performance of room delivery can only be said to be the icing on the cake, the finishing touch.

They got married the second year after graduation, and I heard that they gave the Meizi family a bride price of 800,000 yuan. The wedding banquet was held at Huang Qi's own restaurant, and Meizi's father-in-law was the owner of this restaurant chain.

My married life is equally enviable. I went to Europe for my honeymoon and I saw those photos on Zhang Tuo’s mobile phone. Meizi in the photo is smiling very brightly. It goes without saying that Meizi has found a good home. At least she doesn’t have to live in this city from 9 to 5 and squeeze into the subway. She should be able to realize her dreams for the future during her student days. It’s so imaginative that you can get paid just by watching TV or playing computer games for a day. As she wished, her mother-in-law made her the manager of a store. Although no specific arrangements were made, Meizi was always busy. Because of the convenience, Meizi also learned to make various exquisite dishes from the chef.

Unlike what other students thought, Mei Zi would definitely be offended after entering the Huang family. Not only does her husband respect her very much in life, but her parents-in-law also love her very much. From the color, furniture, and style of the new house decoration to the small details in life, her husband's family respects Meizi's ideas. Naturally, Meizi has also paid a lot for the Huang family. Since she entered the house, all the housework and meals have fallen on Meizi. Meizi is happy to do these things. She will match the meals according to the personal conditions and physiques of Huang Qi and her parents-in-law. At the same time, A health plan was also developed for them.

The harmonious family atmosphere made Huang Qi's career ambition stronger. Without relying on family connections, his performance has always been the company's champion. Meizi also fulfills her duties in the store and fully plays the role of a manager.

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In the second year after marriage, Meizi gave birth to a baby for the Huang family. His birth made Huang Qi love Meizi even more. After giving birth, Meizi became fatter, which made Meizi very frustrated. Therefore, Huang Qi often took Meizi out for walks to increase physical exercise. Huang Qi, who did not like sports very much, often went to the gym in order to sacrifice his life to accompany Junzi. Their efforts were not in vain, and Meizi soon returned to her original figure.

I am very grateful for the stories Zhang Tuo told me, and I have always been secretly happy for Meizi’s happiness.

But this winter, before Zhang Tuo told me the story of plums, he no longer had the joyful expression before, but stared at the ceiling in a daze.

?No wonder Meizi didn’t come to the party last time and didn’t update her circle of friends much?

?What’s wrong? ?I asked eagerly.

?Meizi is divorced! ?

Meizi’s divorce is an ending that none of us could have imagined. Judging from the previous development of the story, Meizi should be the most enviable person among our classmates, and she should spend her life with Huang Qi***. people.

Because Meizi’s father-in-law was ill and neglected to manage the company, the company went bankrupt due to poor management. The family’s property also repaid the bank debt, and her father-in-law was admitted to the hospital because of this matter. Huang Qi was devastated by the incident and could not smile all day long. However, Meizi was very strong at this moment. She told Huang Qi that life would not be smooth sailing and there would always be times when things were not as expected. We are still young and as long as we work hard, we will be able to survive. Break out a world. Meizi's words did not influence Huang Qi. Looking at his father on the hospital bed, he felt that this was a big joke played by God on him. Although he had been working outside, he had always wanted to inherit his father's family business. Meizi wanted to open a mom-and-pop shop with Huang Qi, starting with fast food, but Huang Qi objected. During that time, Huang Qi kept muttering to Meizi to marry someone else and not suffer along with him, which made Meizi almost heartbroken. Mei Zi thought that he was crazy to say such crazy words. Whenever Huang Qi said such things again, Mei Zi would hug her son to her side and he would stop talking.

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Meizi got her wish and opened a fast food restaurant. Huang Qi didn't want to do this. He desperately found ways to build relationships and wanted to rise again. But everyone knows that the so-called network is to use each other. If the other party feels that you are not valuable, they will not really be willing to help you. He still looked down upon Meizi for doing this, maybe because he was used to the life of a kid from a rich family. Meizi, who was running around in stores, kindergartens and hospitals, was also tired. She also felt that she could not see the future. She began to complain to her classmates, her parents, and sometimes even took it out on her children. As her resentment accumulated, she began to look down on Huang Qi more and more.

When Huang Qi once again told Meizi not to suffer with him, Meizi finally couldn't bear it and left home with her child in her arms.

When Zhang Tuo said this, he pursed his lips and made a regretful expression. He sighed, and I echoed, feeling a little more melancholy.

Sharing joys and sorrows is a kind of affection and trust. However, most people can only share joys and sorrows, and few can endure hardships.