If you want to be with a girl, you have to make her interested in you

If you want to be with a girl, you have to make her interested in you

Many people ignore the fact: the reason why I am willing to chat with you, or to cooperate with your routine , that's just because I'm interested in you. No one wants to spend time on a person who is worthless or not interested in. Chatting skills are based on attraction. For the same topic and the same routine, the results obtained by attractive and unattractive are completely different... So, please always think about one question: Before you chat with girls, where is your value and where is your attraction!

The main sources of attraction come from two aspects:

1. Hardware: appearance Value, power, wealth, social status, education, social status...

2. Software value; sincerity, humor, bravery, expertise...

Four major chat skills 1: Chat with the same frequency. Chatting with the same frequency is very important for establishing and maintaining the attraction previously established in the chat. Chatting with the same frequency is manifested in two aspects:

①Same frequency of status

It means that during the chat process, you have to learn to respect the status of the other party. If she is busy, you have to learn not to disturb her. If she is in a bad mood, you have to enlighten her, or even stay far away and not disturb her... Emotions of the same frequency are ordinary friends. You should keep a distance and don't make too many jokes: if you are a good friend, you can speak frankly, you can derogatory and laugh at the other person, but do not attack the other person's personality; if you are a lover, you can tell dirty jokes shamelessly... ...

Different relationships should adopt different chat modes, which means that the closer and more reliable your relationship is, the more high-energy words and words you can use!

Two: Emotional chat

"Emotional chat = state of feeling". During the chat, appropriately add your own feelings about your own situation and the other person's situation to make the chat interesting and make the other person want to stop. At the same time, what the other party feels is respect, tolerance, consideration, and gentleness...

Example:

Male: What are you doing?

Female: Do your homework. (Status)

Male: You are still doing homework when you should eat. You have the potential to become a top student

Female (busy, no reply for 20 minutes)

Male: You seem to be very busy. What homework are you doing? (Status)

Female: Accounting practice;

Male: No matter how busy you are, you must remember Eat, otherwise many of us will be sad! (feeling)

Female: (smiling face, smiling face)

Male: Don’t laugh, be serious: Female: No more chatting, hurry up I am writing homework and have to hand it in in the afternoon. Male: What I want to say is, I am good at copying homework. Female: (No reply for a long time) Male: Have you finished the homework? (Evening) Female: Haha, I have finished it long ago. Male: You ignored me and I worried about you all day...Female: Haha, this person is quite interesting

Chat 3: Multiple dialogue contexts (this is used to find topics, If done well, the topic can go on and on)

1. Talk about food. When a girl talks about what she is eating, you can extend it to topic Ⅰ. I know you are a foodie. 2. To grow thin, "Eat more meat, eat meat, and grow meat." You can take the opportunity to chat with the girl about the food you like to eat. You can implant an invitation to take her to eat food. 2. Talk about age if the girl Younger I. You are still a baby 2. So you are still a child 3. Then I want to hear you call me uncle. If the girl is older l. Female junior, hold the gold brick 2. In my eyes you will always be eighteen years old , mature girls are more feminine