My parents always speak ill of me in front of my relatives. What should I do to belittle me?

I think you can communicate with your parents. As children, we should also get along like friends and learn to put ourselves in each other's shoes. You can talk to your parents about whether you can respect yourself and put yourself in each other's shoes. If my classmates and I tell you their parents' shortcomings in front of you, how do they feel? Will they be very chilling?

Maybe parents want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. They may think that you don't listen and don't care when you tell you your shortcomings on weekdays. In front of relatives, it shows the hardships of educating children. You also have face and dignity, and you don't want others to look down on you. So, encourage you to pay attention and correct yourself. The most important thing is communication. Or parents are too modest. When relatives meet and talk about their children's work, they must praise each other. Parents may just be willing to listen and talk about your shortcomings too modestly.

You can tell your parents that excellent people become better by encouragement and praise. Despise me every day, I am not convinced, respect you in my relationship with my children, and feel uncomfortable if I don't talk back to you. I will definitely have rebellious mentality and oppose you. I think this practice is also an educational mistake, which will cause psychological harm to children.

Encouraging others to become better people is the ability that everyone should learn. Don't use the banner of "I am good for you" to say that people are not good in front of and behind others. Communicate in time when there are problems in education, and don't complain in front of others. Parents should learn to protect their children's dignity and face in front of outsiders. If not, do they expect others to respect your children, recognize your children, and even respect you?