A 2-year-old baby won't let others laugh at him.

Perhaps many parents have such troubles. After the child is 2-3 years old, it becomes particularly difficult to discipline and has a bad temper. They always like to go against their parents and always say "no", but most parents just think that their children are too naughty, but they don't think this may be a stage that every child will go through in the process of growing up.

One year old, two to three years old.

2~3 years old, the child probably entered the first rebellious period of life, also called "rebellious period". Babies at this stage are like little demons, which are extremely difficult to discipline. In order to make them obedient, parents racked their brains.

But mom and dad will find that no matter how you teach and manage, the baby just won't listen, and even has confrontational behavior. That's because children in this period have just gained a little knowledge, formed a certain sense of self, and are eager to express themselves, so they will oppose their parents and say "no".

My friend's child is over two years old, and she also has a headache. She often complains to some of our friends that her baby used to be very clever and obedient, but recently there is a big contrast, very rebellious and disobedient. I enlightened her: "This is normal, every child will go through this stage."

Second, the rebellious period of children.

When a child reaches the age of seven or eight, it will usher in the second rebellious period in his life. Children of this age gradually have their own opinions and ideas, and sometimes their ideas will deviate from those of their parents. So in order to stick to their opinions, they will fight for the initiative through rebellious behavior, so the children in this period are particularly rebellious and naughty.

Third, the rebellious period of youth.

The rebellious period of youth, which we often say is "adolescence", is probably between 12 and 18. Children at this stage have grown up, have their own ideas and judgments about things, have independent consciousness, and don't like being bound.

However, this period is also the most critical period. Children grow up soon and are easily influenced by some incorrect thoughts and behaviors. Therefore, parents are also very strict with their children during this period, fearing that their children will make bad "friends" and that they will get into bad habits.

But for children, the stricter their parents are, the more they want to resist, so the "generation gap" between children and parents has gradually surfaced and the "gap" is getting bigger and bigger.

First, he has a big temper and loves to cry.

The rebellious baby has a big temper. If mom and dad do things that don't meet their wishes and say things that don't meet their wishes, they will lose their temper and cry. Many babies will express their dissatisfaction by throwing things.

My little nephew, who is also about three years old, has a headache. Everything must be done according to his words. Whenever he did something that made him dissatisfied, he cried and threw things, and he didn't dare to put things down at home.

Second, I like hitting people.

Many rebellious babies will express their dissatisfaction in various ways. The most irritating thing is hitting people, scratching people and pulling their hair. Many babies do this, and my little nephew is also very proficient, which leads me to walk around him every time I go to his house. At least I can't stand being provoked and hiding.

But his parents are not so lucky. They came to my house to play. Maybe it's getting late. When my little nephew is sleepy, he keeps making noise. Seeing that mom and dad didn't want to go home, they beat dad and scratched and scratched, so his parents had to go home quickly.

Third, full of energy.

Babies in this period seem to be particularly energetic and curious about the world. I used to sleep several times a day, but now I don't sleep much. They like to stay up late and not talk. They always want to go out during the day, whether it's windy or rainy. If you don't take him out, you will lose your temper for a while, but if you take him out, you will get better immediately. Those little hands haven't stopped since they went out, and they like to touch this and catch that.

Children who are in a rebellious period are mostly difficult to discipline. At this time, parents should not expect their children to obey. However, as a parent, you can let your children cooperate with you.

0 1, giving a concise and clear explanation.

For children aged 2~3, although they have a little knowledge, they can't make a correct judgment, and what they say to their parents is not completely acceptable. Therefore, if you want your child to be obedient, you have to pay attention to methods and give your child concise and clear instructions.

For example, children have been rummaging through things and throwing toys and books everywhere, which is a mess. Then at this time, it is useless for you to reason with him, and he may not listen. Therefore, the best way is to tell them directly: "put away the toys, put things down" and so on.

Parents should simplify their own language and tell their children what you want them to do in sentences that they can understand. It is best for a command to convey only one meaning.

02. Seize the opportunity to reason with your child.

Maybe some children are bold and mischievous and don't take the instructions given by their parents seriously, so parents should not get angry and control their emotions. After all, children are too young to solve problems by beating and cursing.

He may not reason with him at this time, so parents can put this matter aside first, and there will always be times when he needs you. For example, I want you to buy him something to eat. At this time, you can take it out and say to him, "I'll buy it for you when you make this mother." Under the temptation of food, he may be able to follow his mother's instructions.

03, want to have their own positioning.

Many children cry when their parents criticize them. At this time, parents must have their own position, know what is good for their children, and think about what will happen if they obey their children's wishes this time, and what will happen if they don't obey their wishes. They can't always spoil their children, but they should also ensure their safety.

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Basically, every child will rebel sometimes, which is normal, so parents don't have to worry too much. But if you want your children to be good, you have to work harder, master the right methods, control your emotions and raise your children scientifically!

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