Zi Han tells jokes.

Nowadays, children basically have two names, a big name and a nickname. Parents usually call their children's nicknames. Children's nicknames are cute and pleasant to call, while big names are more formal and have better meanings.

Because parents generally don't call their children by their names, they ignore the importance of big names. However, after the children go to school, some parents find that the names given to their children are not very pleasant, which brings some troubles to their children.

My friend Xiao Ting is a primary school teacher. She has just worked for two years. She likes this job very much, but there is a problem that bothers her from beginning to end, that is, some students' names are too special to be called.

Two years ago, many parents especially liked the name "Zi Han". In one class, there are many students named Zi Han, as well as Zi Han, Zi Han and Zi Han. Every time Xiao Ting calls the roll, several students stand up at the same time. She could see that these students were embarrassed.

After a long time, Xiao Ting finally got rid of the trouble caused by "Zi Han", but she found a new name, which is the combination of "father's surname" and "mother's surname".

For example, the father's surname is Zhao and the mother's surname is Tian, and "encounter" and "encounter" are homophonic and have a beautiful meaning. But some parents' names for their children are far from satisfactory. For example, there is a student named "Wang Wang" in Xiao Ting's class. As a result, the students all said that he was a puppy, which brought a lot of influence to the children.

A few years ago, the name "Zi Han" was deeply loved by everyone and became the name with the highest rate of duplicate names. After the children went to school, they found that there were many students with the same name and surname on campus, which was very embarrassing. Parents are also aware of this problem. The popularity of "Zi Han" began to fade, and parents began to come up with new names.

Perhaps everyone's thoughts and aesthetics have the same place. Now there are a number of bad street names, that is, the combination of "father surname+mother surname", such as Yao, Zhao and so on. The first word is the father's surname, the third word is the mother's surname, and then a word is added in the middle to form the name.

This kind of name is very innovative, and the rate of duplicate names is not very high, but it has certain limitations and cannot be "forced". For example, no matter what words are added in the middle, they will feel awkward and will not read smoothly.

In addition, some names sound corny, such as Cao Aihua and Ma Huimei, which feel similar to those in the 1980s. Therefore, parents should be cautious when giving their children such names, and should read them several times to avoid bringing trouble and embarrassment to their children.

First of all, when the teacher calls the roll, the child may be embarrassed. If you want to study well, you should interact with the teacher in class, so the teacher will ask questions by name in class and encourage students to raise their hands to speak.

If a child's name is corny, or the rate of duplicate names is too high, the teacher may cause laughter when he calls the roll, which is a mockery and blow to the child and may also cause psychological pressure.

Secondly, you may be laughed at by your classmates. After entering the campus, students' main task is to learn knowledge. Besides, they should also exercise their social skills. After all, they belong to "group life" at school. If they don't have good friends, they will feel uncomfortable and even tired of studying.

However, if a student's name is too special, difficult to read or homophonic, he may be nicknamed by his classmates. For example, one of my classmates is called "Liu", mainly because the homophonic characters are not very good, so he has a very ugly nickname. After being laughed at by classmates, children may become inferior, unsociable, and even have a defective personality.

Third, it may affect the exam. If parents give their children too many names, such as Xin, Win, Ge, Yi, etc. It will be troublesome to write, it will take some time to write the name alone, and it is easy to make mistakes. To know that exam time is precious, it will also lead to children being at a disadvantage.

There are also some parents who use uncommon words when naming their children, such as Yan, Yan, Yan, etc., which may not be recognized by the marking teacher. If it is a machine marking, it may affect the exam results. There was a girl who wanted to apply for graduate school. Because there is "LZ" in her name, the word can't be typed in the school system, which leads to the failure of the postgraduate entrance examination. I'm sorry.

Finally, I want to say that parents should not pursue individuality too much when naming their children, but should consider their children's future. You can simulate a scene: the teacher is standing on the podium, shouting names, and considering whether his children will be embarrassed. Decide on a name after careful consideration.