Xie Lisi's misfortune: After his mother died, he fell ill at the age of 50, and his 67-year-old daughter passed away.

Accidents will happen. Lev tolstoy, a famous Russian writer, said: "All happy families are similar, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way."

Fate is a naughty boy. It always likes to give you a fatal blow when everyone is most proud, and beat you from heaven to hell.

The experience of China famous singer Xie Lisi is the best proof.

Many young people may not know the name Xie Lisi, but in 1980s, she was one of the most popular singers in China.

Xie Lisi, whose ancestral home is Hengyang, Hunan, is an out-and-out "spice girl" in Hunan.

However, although her ancestral home is Hunan, she grew up in Chongqing. Before she was born, her father went to an arsenal in Chongqing as an engineer for work reasons, and the family has since settled in Chongqing.

Xie Lisi was born in 1947, which is a good opportunity, because in two years, people will turn over.

Fortunately, because his father was an engineer, Xie Lisi was an out-and-out Gao Qian family and had a good life at that time when the national literacy rate was only 10%.

Father also dotes on this clever daughter very much. Seeing that she likes singing, he bought her a phonograph and many records.

When I was a child, Xie Lisi was always fascinated by it.

In her opinion, the phonograph is the key to realize her dream. She hopes that one day, her voice can be heard on the phonograph and spread all over the country, just like her idol Guo.

At that time, Guo was a famous singer in China. Her most famous work is an episode of the film Shangganling, My Motherland.

So it is no problem to regard such a giant as an idol and learn from her.

However, this dream, Xie Lisi only dare to hide in my heart, dare not tell my father.

Although Fu Xie dotes on his daughter very much, he was born in the old times after all, and many ideas cannot be changed. As an engineer, he naturally hopes that his daughter will become an engineer and build the motherland when she grows up.

But a singer? To put it mildly, call an artist; To put it bluntly, it is called an actor or actress. This is a dirty business. How could he let his daughter do such a thing?

At the age of seventeen, Xie Lisi decided to apply for the China Conservatory of Music. Parents don't agree, of course, Xie Lisi at this time also showed amazing stubbornness, parents don't let, she went on a hunger strike, parents love their daughter, in desperation, had to promise.

Although the dream is beautiful, the reality is often not so satisfactory. As soon as Xie Lisi arrived at China Conservatory of Music, he was hit by reality.

She always thought that her singing skills were excellent, not one of the best, but at least upstream, but she didn't know until Beijing that there were mountains beyond the mountains, and there were days behind them, and her qualifications were at best medium, and she was unremarkable among a large group of students.

However, Xie Lisi is not going to give up. Since the talent is insufficient, redouble your efforts.

Diligence can make up for it, and stupid birds fly first. Nothing is difficult to the man who will try.

As long as you keep going up, there will always be a bright future.

But Xie Lisi herself didn't expect that she had waited for more than ten years for this hopeful day.

After graduating from college, Xie Lisi was first sent to a farm in Xuanhua, Zhangjiakou, where she worked. However, because she could not adapt to the climate, she suffered from wandering rheumatoid arthritis.

But at this moment, she met the most important man in her life-Longman Yao.

Compared with Xie Lisi, Longman Obsidian's reputation is really not very loud.

What is even more embarrassing is that because Xie Lisi has a good partner named Wang Jieshi, they often perform together, and many audiences regard them as husband and wife.

Although he is a loyal partner in his career, Longman Yao is an irreplaceable person in his life.

When Yao Langman appeared around, he was facing the double blow of life. Her mother died and her leg was sick. Everything is so unhappy, and the sky is gray.

Just then, Longman Obsidian appeared. He fell in love with Xie Lisi at first sight. At that time, a boy was kind to a girl, and the method was very simple. He bought her food and drink, satisfied her wishes and accompanied her.

Xie Lisi was moved by this simple man, and a few years later, they walked into the marriage hall together.

At the same time, Xie Lisi's career is on the right track.

But she has always had a distress, that is, she will never find a suitable partner. Fortunately, when Xie Lisi was 3 1 year old, her destiny partner finally came to her side.

This is Wang Jieshi.

Xie Lisi majored in vocal music when he was born, but Wang Jieshi became a monk halfway. At that time, the leaders of the regiment didn't think highly of them and thought it was nonsense. Xie Lisi's idea is very firm, even if it is not, you should try it first.

Since you want to try, let's try.

So, Xie Lisi and Wang Jieshi went on stage together and gave a perfect performance. The two men had a big fire.

Xie Lisi and Wang Jieshi are a pair of "golden partners" in their careers. The woman is dignified and generous, the man is handsome and beautiful, and their songs are beautiful and beautiful. When they stand on the stage, they can attract the attention of the audience.

Because they are too eye-catching and too tacit, many viewers mistakenly think that they are a couple and make a lot of jokes.

But Xie Lisi clearly knows that Wang Jieshi is a partner in her own career, and the person she really wants to walk through life hand in hand is her husband, Longman Yao.

Therefore, no matter how misunderstood by the outside world, Xie Lisi just laughed it off. She has a good relationship with her husband, and they also gave birth to a lively and lovely daughter named Le Lang.

Family harmony and successful career. Xie Lisi's life is almost perfect, but as said at the beginning, fate will always give you a fatal blow when you are most proud.

1997, Xie Lisi suddenly felt unwell and went to the hospital for examination.

The result of the exam surprised everyone. She has multiple lacunar cerebral infarction, and her brain is in a state that only an 80-year-old person can have.

With this disease, eyes will droop, mouth will be crooked, tongue will be crooked, and finally I can only lie in bed. Life is worse than death.

Xie Lisi felt that the sky was falling. She is only fifty years old and still young, but getting this disease means that she can no longer perform on stage and sing. How can she accept such a result as a lifelong career? !

Yao Langman, her husband, immediately returned to Beijing from Shaanxi after hearing the news. He is a director and is directing a TV series.

Over the years, Yao Langman and he have always been very loving. Xie Lisi and Wang Jieshi perform on the same stage and are often regarded as a couple. As a husband, sometimes it's hard to hear.

But he fully believes that Xie Lisi and Wang Jieshi are just colleagues. His wife is an independent woman and a successful singer. She has the right to choose her own partner and develop her own career. No matter who she is, she can't limit her freedom in this respect.

But now that Xie Lisi is ill, as a husband, he should take responsibility, take care of her, comfort her and accompany her.

Longman Yao took good care of Xie Lisi, washed and cooked for her, and arranged her daily life. Xie Lisi refused to accept his fate and actively cooperated with doctors for treatment. Either way, she has to try.

My daughter Le Lang also takes time to accompany her to the hospital from time to time. A family of three are fighting the disease in their own way.

Finally, a miracle happened. After several years of treatment and rest, Xie Lisi's condition really recovered. Wang Jieshi didn't leave her to find another partner. He said he would wait for the day when Xie Lisi returned to the stage.

Seeing that everything is about to get on the right track, but at this moment, another bad news came-

Daughter Le Lang was diagnosed with lung cancer.

The news that the child is a piece of meat falling from the mother came as a bolt from the blue to Xie Lisi. In the next four years, Yao and Longman took their daughters everywhere for medical treatment, hoping to create another miracle, just like their own recovery miracle.

But this time, God didn't give them a chance.

Four years later, my daughter died, and Longman Yao and I sent the white-haired man to the black-haired man. Xie Lisi was completely crushed by the bad news. She didn't understand why her life, after half a century, began to plummet. Fate not only took away her health, but also her career, and now she wants to take away her only daughter.

All kinds of ideas filled her mind and even made her suffer from depression.

Fortunately, her daughter was married and left a child, which was her only blood. The couple loved this childless child since childhood and devoted all their feelings for their daughter to their granddaughter.

Although they also know that their daughter can't come back, people must have a sustenance when they are alive, otherwise they are empty shells.

Today, Xie Lisi is 75 years old. Time will slowly heal the inner pain.

Compared with Xie Lisi, Longman Obsidian is obviously strong. He encouraged his wife to accompany him and helped her slowly get out of the haze of her daughter's death.

However, Xie Lisi stopped performing on the stage because of excessive mental shock and increasingly weak body.

There are too many things in her life. At the age of 70, he didn't want to bear any more stimulation and chose to quit the screen.

Actually, it doesn't matter. Xie Lisi's life was brilliant, lonely, frustrated and warm. Now, it's time to return to dullness. In the following days, she will go hand in hand with her husband Yao Langman.

Finally, I wish Yao Langman good health and enjoy his old age.