You are not strong enough and deserve to be "joked"

When we were about to graduate from college, everyone was "busy" with their graduation thesis, and our instructors were also "trying hard" on us.

One day our supervisor called us to the office and asked us to bring a USB flash drive to look at our papers. Basically everyone has some problems, and the attentive tutors help us find them out and tell us how to modify them.

My roommate A was in front of me because she had many problems, and the teacher pointed them out one by one angrily. After more than 20 minutes, I was put in line. I saw her walking away with a look of disdain in her eyes. It was my turn to come on stage, and I glanced at her eyes full of "expectation" with my peripheral vision. Fortunately, the problem is not big, but the format and the last few paragraphs need to be modified.

After returning to the dormitory, she said to me in a "weird" way: "Becca (my nickname), we are the two who have the most problems this time. I see that the teacher is also a little angry with you. You Please revise it too!"

I guess the teacher is very angry with you! Don't project your own discomfort onto me and drag me into the water! The teacher only said two points about my question, okay!

Facing the bitch’s “kind words”, my heart felt like the turbulent waves after a typhoon passed by. But thinking about graduating soon and never seeing each other again in this life, I endured it.

There are also people who usually don’t pay attention to you, but as soon as a “good thing” happens to you, she immediately expresses “congratulations” and wishes that such “good things” would happen to you.

Once, I made several "mistakes" because I didn't fill in the form carefully. The teacher called me in the group and asked me to do it again. So my roommate B immediately went online, and she said with "attention": "Oh, you are weird, four of the five forms have problems, the teacher said something about you in the group..."

< p> At that time, I looked at her "voice and smile" and really wanted to have a fight with her. What's so funny? Don't you just want to see my joke? Laugh to death you bitch!

After these two things happened, I found that there are very few people who comfort you after encountering things, and there are many people who "add insult to injury". Some people don't feel well, so they don't forget to use a backrest to make themselves feel better. Others like to watch you "sniff out". The more embarrassing you are, the happier she will be.

Later, I finally figured out why such things often happened to me. I found the answer from other people's counterexamples - because I am not strong enough and easy to bully!

A friend of mine in college was in the exact opposite situation. She is also my bestie.

My best friend and I seem to have grown up wearing the same pants, and our shortcomings are so similar. For example: we are misplaced and often cannot find things; we often leave the dormitory door without a key; we don’t like going to class and often skip classes together... They are just like me, and I am very happy!

But she is different from me. She is often not in the dormitory and appears in clubs and student unions every day. She often organizes activities and is flexible in dealing with things. The teachers value her very much. Later, she ran for the position of vice president, and her speech became more and more leadership-like and aura, while I became more and more "degenerate".

Her classmates also treat her differently. She went out without her keys, and her roommates were very tolerant of her; she was often surrounded by junior students who wanted to please her; her paper was brushed over and over again by the teacher, but her roommates comforted her and even felt sorry for her, saying The teacher deliberately made things difficult for her!

I wipe it! If it were me and something bad happened, I would either be laughed to death or drowned in spit!

The same thing happened, but they were treated unequally. All right! I admit that I am not strong enough and will always be laughed at.

When you are not strong enough, others cannot see your strengths. At this time, everyone is a "magnifying glass". They will magnify your mistakes, or even make them out of thin air and add fuel to the fire. The purpose of this is to make me happy when I see you in pain. As the saying goes, other people's happiness is based on your pain!

When you are not strong enough, what do you do to protect yourself! At this time, you have a glass heart, and any words from others may hurt you.

This is a "strong" society, and the tears of the weak are worthless. Don't complain about other people's "power". Only when you are strong will the world be gentle to you. If you are not strong, others will only treat you as a joke.

Those bitches who have laughed at me, one day I will give you a loud slap in the face.

When you are not strong enough, when you cannot persevere, think of the looks of contempt and ridicule from others as your internal driving force.

To make ourselves strong, we all need to "upgrade" from the outside to the inside.

(1). Work hard and let others admire you!

The scariest thing is not that you have a low starting point, but that you cannot see hope and give up on yourself prematurely.

If you work hard, you may not succeed, but if you don’t work hard, you won’t even have a chance of success. When you encounter difficulties, you must grit your teeth and persevere. Work and life are our dojo, so practice well through work, let yourself gain wealth, and see the world from a higher position!

As long as you are willing to work hard, you will eventually turn over. Not only will you gain honor and status, but you will also gain the attention of others.

(2) Cultivate internal skills and strengthen your heart through reading

Don’t give up reading, although it cannot bring you immediate benefits.

The ancients said: There is poetry and calligraphy in your belly. Although the books you have read are no longer in your memory, they will be hidden in your temperament and your conversation. Books will teach us a lot, whether it is work or all aspects of life, you can learn it. As you accumulate more and more knowledge, you will become more confident and have more depth when talking to people.

Others only live one life, but by reading, you feel like you have spent several lives in other people's stories. Your mind will be more mature than your peers, and your ability to resist setbacks will be stronger. Unknowingly, you My heart is also getting stronger.

(3) Pay attention to appearance and improve your image and temperament through fitness.

Yang Lan once said, "No one wants to see your excellent inside through your sloppy appearance." Improving your appearance is also an aspect of strengthening yourself.

I have to admit that this is a society that values ??appearance! Good looks equals more opportunities. Although there are few natural beauties, we do not rule out the "beauties" who develop later in life.

Wang Xiao, the well-known "Sister Xiaosha", is in her 40s, but through fitness and shaping, her figure and skin are maintained like a girl!

We are born with deficiencies, but we can develop them the day after tomorrow! As long as you eat properly and exercise, you will become a beautiful woman!

When we become stronger and stronger, we seem to be wearing a "golden bell". At this time, the unpleasant words said by others cannot harm us, because we have lived another self!

I am not very powerful now, but compared to me before, I am much stronger.

I am now on the road to making myself stronger. Every Saturday and Sunday, when I have a day off, I go to see clients. The more I meet, the more chance I have to close a deal. I have to read a book every day, which has become as natural as eating and breathing. I am also preparing to enter the market recently. Gym, make yourself better!

When we are not strong enough, we feel like dogs are bullying you; when we are strong, we find that all the good things in the world will come to greet us.

One day, your strength will give a powerful counterattack to those who laugh at you!

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I hope my article can inspire you!