"Old people, living too long is not necessarily a blessing." what do you think?

Uncle Zhang ended his life with a piece of tofu on his 89th birthday. Some of his children and grandchildren feel sad and sorry, while others are happy!

Uncle Zhang Can can read and write. When he was young, he was a gentleman in a private school. He has raised three sons and two daughters in his life, and the youngest son is the most proud of him.

In the early years, due to poor economic conditions and poor families, many children in the family often didn't have enough to eat and couldn't put on clothes and cover themselves.

Uncle Zhang said that it was common for him to eat turf and gnaw at roots at that time.

Fortunately, children and grandchildren have grown up and are very filial. After they get married, although the conditions are relatively poor, they will also give him pocket money and buy him new clothes on holidays. For the economic conditions at that time, it was the greatest blessing in life to have a full meal and a full house of children and grandchildren.

However, at the age of 68, an accident took a major turn in his fate.

There were several cows at home at that time. His eldest son was busy with farm work and asked him to drive them back to the fields at night.

Although he is 68 years old, his body has always been tough, and it is not difficult for him to herd cattle occasionally!

It may have been raining for a long time and the road was slippery, or it may have slipped and fell under a cliff three or four meters high when driving cattle.

Due to the limited medical skills and poor family economic conditions, they were not cured well and had to spend the rest of their lives in a wheelchair!

According to family regulations, his eldest son is responsible for her retirement.

I can't take care of myself from now on. People need help in bathing, changing clothes and going to the toilet. Sometimes they even need help to get up and sleep, which brings great inconvenience to life.

Fortunately, although the eldest son's family has average economic conditions, he is still quite filial. He washes clothes and cooks early every day without complaining. It's a blessing in disguise!

In fact, he is most proud of his youngest son, Xiao Zhang, who has done well in his studies since childhood. After graduating from college, I worked in a listed company and was a famous local college student.

Not only that, he also changed the fate of several nephews through his own ability. After graduating from college, nephews arranged suitable jobs for them, and the whole family embarked on the fast lane of happiness!

Therefore, although his eldest son is responsible for his pension life, in real life, money-related expenses are borne by his younger son, who contributes and his younger son pays!

However, it has been raining. Although the money is raised by my youngest son, it seems a bit loose, but the trick of fate is irreversible.

About three years after he broke his leg, his eldest son died of alcoholism.

His eldest son has always regarded wine as his life. He can't live without wine for every meal, and even works in the fields. When he is thirsty and tired, he will take two sips of wine.

Under the long-term anesthesia of alcohol, the liver function was seriously damaged, and finally he died in the ICU ward with an oxygen mask for some time.

Since then, great changes have taken place in Uncle Zhang's personality.

I used to chat with the old people in the village in a wheelchair, but now I often stay at home alone and feel depressed. I used to call my grandson, but now he doesn't bother to answer his call back.

In the past, when I was in good health, I could eat three meals a day and a small bowl for each meal. Now I often skip dinner, and my appetite drops sharply!

Although she is old, the loss of her eldest son has hit her hard. He often tells people that he has done countless good things in his life, but God has wronged him, and the horrible people have found the wrong person.

This kind of life lasted for more than ten years.

When he was 89 years old that year. Relatives and friends of the surrounding villagers came to celebrate his birthday. On the wine table, he also took a sip of white wine, and his interest was particularly high!

But he said something that people didn't like to hear: Now that my children and grandchildren are married, I can't bring trouble to everyone any more. It's time for everyone to go.

At that time, many people thought he was talking nonsense, telling him not to entertain foolish ideas and to live to 100 years old.

However, when everyone was about to put away the dishes and chopsticks, he suddenly asked his granddaughter to give him half a spoonful of rice, saying that he was very happy today and wanted to eat more.

Then he put a big piece of tofu and a mass of rice in his mouth, swallowed it without smoking, coughed twice, and people around him quickly poured him water, but he didn't even pick up the water or breathe. ...

Nearly 90-year-old people, physical function is also a spent force, without any resistance, a little thing, may end their lives.

For the death of Uncle Zhang, his children and grandchildren, while expressing their grief, also rationally thought it was a relief for Uncle Zhang.

After all, living such a big age is strictly a natural death, and children and grandchildren have already married, and there is no regret in life.

He can only sit in a wheelchair all the year round and can hardly take care of himself. This is particularly painful for him, and from the perspective of being a father, he thinks that living is a burden and brings trouble to his children.

In addition, two children passed away one after another, and it is also the biggest heartache in life for white-haired people to send black-haired people.

Besides, leaving this world at this age is also a kind of happiness.

Although all children hope that the elderly can live a long life, for people with physical illness, life can't take care of themselves, and living is also a kind of pain, not necessarily a kind of happiness.

We can't know the length of life, but we can broaden the width of life, keep a kind heart and care more about our families. As long as the family is harmonious and the children are happy, it is the greatest pleasure in life!

During the May Day holiday, I went back to my hometown and paid a visit to my aunt and nephew. It was supposed to be very festive. Who knows, menstruation cried as soon as he saw me, and my tears were blurred!

I finally persuaded my aunt. I took out a gift, two sets of clothes and a pair of bracelets for my aunt. My aunt didn't care too much about these gifts, and casually said that even the best things don't mean anything to an old woman. Impression of menstruation love beautiful, love to dress up, but with the growth of age, menstruation has been unable to dress up!

My aunt raised three children in her life. The eldest son studied very well, was admitted to a key university, and was assigned to work in other places. The daughter is married to a local farmer, and the younger son is working in a foreign country! Three children, filial piety should have nothing to say! The eldest son basically comes back to accompany his mother every Spring Festival and National Day holiday. The youngest son has a heavy burden. Both children are in college and only go out to work. However, as long as his mother is not feeling well, he will ask for leave to go home to wait on him. Daughters are responsible for their own food and clothing. She comes once every three days. Her mother wants to wash and buy!

When menstruation can take care of himself, life is quite moist. But the year before last, my 85-year-old aunt had a stroke. Although the rescue was timely, it still left a sequela. Aunt's right arm is weak and her right leg is limping, so she can't take care of herself!

My aunt, unable to take care of herself, has become a problem. My aunt has an inner resistance to entering a nursing home. Traditionally, she thought that she had children who went to nursing homes for fear of being laughed at. Originally, it was the best way for three children to take turns to support the elderly, but the eldest son is far from home, and it is unrealistic for my aunt to go there. Finally, it was agreed that the aunt would be supported by her daughter and younger son, each of whom would support the elderly for half a year, and the eldest son would pay a certain pension fee every year!

Although my aunt's daughter is in the countryside, her economic strength is average, but her child is married, and there is not much burden. Supporting mother is not a problem. The youngest son didn't make money at home for half a year, and the first round was ok. When he was waiting for the second round, his wife called to complain, because she earned money alone and could not afford the expenses of her two children who went to college. It happened that my aunt heard it, and when she saw her sad little son, she felt very sorry: it was her old deathlessly who dragged down the child!

Aunt said to her little son, son, go out and earn money. I can't influence the future of my two grandchildren. But how can the youngest son have the heart to let go of his mother? Sometimes, he also wants to discuss with his sister, and also takes out a certain pension fee, so that her sister can wait on her mother alone, but she can't talk because her sister has done enough for this family.

This year's "May Day" holiday, my aunt's daughter-in-law came back with a clear purpose, that is, to take her husband away, but the younger son is filial and will never leave his mother. His wife came back the same day and left the same day. Looking at the angry kannika nimtragol, my aunt cried deeply: God, why didn't you take me away when I was sick last time? What's the point of letting me live or die?

As it happens, on May 2nd, I visited my aunt. Seeing her niece's nephew, she was sad again: What's the use of living that old age? It is better to die early and get rid of it early!

From my aunt's personal experience, it is not difficult to see:

When people reach a certain age, if they are healthy and their children are filial, of course, the more they live, the better. An ancient family is better than a treasure! But if you can't take care of yourself, the old people won't talk about their pain, and they will also bring a lot of unhappiness to their families because of the problem of providing for the elderly. Therefore, many old people don't want to go to the step of lying in bed and waiting to die, but think that they will die quietly after sleeping and basking in the sun, so they will feel that they have done good deeds for eight generations!

If the family conditions are good, it will naturally be much better. You can ask a nanny to serve and enjoy advanced treatment. However, for the average family, the pressure of life is usually great. When parents can't take care of themselves, it's easy to have some contradictions. This is not to say that children are unfilial, but that life is stressful!

Moreover, if the family is unclear, parents are sick, and there is no filial son in front of the hospital bed for a long time, then it is conceivable that the elderly will be even more sad!

This is a truth, and combined with the saying that good people do not live long and harm people for 10 thousand years, it further shows that longevity is not necessarily a good thing. The world space is limited and there are no idle people. The fate of every life is an unfinished fruit. Once it is achieved, it will drive cranes westward and will no longer suffer from human suffering.

The fate of three generations of life is connected, such as adding wings to a tiger, such as a child becoming a phoenix. Fish begins to stink at the head, every family is a small universe. The space in the small universe is even more limited. If the older generation is too old, it will definitely occupy the living space of the young. Therefore, if there are long-lived elderly people in the family, children and grandchildren are prone to short life. This is an intangible asset.

In fact, the meaning of life lies not in the length of time, but in the quality of life and how much you pay. You can't afford it if you just pursue enjoyment blindly. That is the scourge of mankind. Because enjoyment is bound to produce waste. Waste is the greatest evil in the world. There must be punishment for crimes, and punishment takes time, so time is longevity.

"Old people, living too long is not necessarily a blessing." This sentence, said too well.

Some people say that it is a good thing for the elderly to live long. If you live 100 years old, you can count on it.

I don't think so. I think it's good that people can live to be 80 or 90 years old. They can take care of themselves and don't give their children any trouble.

How many middle-aged people in their forties and fifties died young? Is there no blessing?

Longevity leads to many diseases, and long life leads to thin happiness!

According to common sense, it is good for people to live a hundred years old, but how many people can take care of themselves?

There is a hundred-year-old lady beside me who has died, and the other children take turns to wait on her.

Children are served enough, not unfilial, but our children have old and young needs to be served, and we really can't afford it.

We've been killed. What's the point of living?

To tell the truth, it is good for people to live a hundred years old, but it is difficult to drag down children. It is better to ascend to heaven early and let their children enjoy some happiness.

It's terrible, but it's what children expect!

I don't expect you to die soon, but I can't stand my child alive!

Are you right?

My grandfather lived for a hundred years before he died. Five generations live under one roof, causing a sensation in the whole village. The old man has two sons and three daughters. There are six grandchildren and 16 great-grandchildren. When he died, it was a funeral. The whole family in the village went to see him off, as if there were thousands of people.

On the day of his death, I heard from my father-in-law that he happened to go to see his grandfather that day, and then he said that he would not eat dinner. If you want to leave it to your grandchildren, tell my father-in-law that he is leaving and ask him to call those grandchildren at home. Then at nine o'clock in the evening, the old man died.

The old man gave birth to two sons. One of my husbands is called grandpa and the other is called uncle. Because grandpa and uncle are too old to take care of grandpa. So he is the father of his granddaughter's husband. Grandpa gave birth to four sons and uncle gave birth to two sons. The problem of eating is that six grandchildren take turns eating.

The old man lives alone in his old house. It's time for dinner. Whose turn is it? After cooking, he sent hot food to the old man's house. Some people often forget to send meals to the elderly because their six relatives deny them, and the elderly are often hungry. But the old man didn't complain. If he doesn't eat in the morning, whoever goes to his house will bother others to remind him.

The old man didn't care much, so he just ate. Once, my mother-in-law forgot to deliver food in the morning. At about one o'clock noon, someone came to remind us that we had all eaten. I saw that some fried rice was not finished, so I would heat it up and send it there, and the old man didn't complain. It was then that I remembered that he was 98 years old.

The old man likes to drink a little wine. If the great-grandson sends him some sea fish at dinner, he must ask someone to get him some wine, and then he will run errands for the great-grandson every time, and a dollar is only fifty cents.

The old man lived alone until his death, and he didn't need company at night. I can take a bath by myself and I'm not sick or anything. Let the person whose turn it is to eat wash his clothes.

When the old man died, his father-in-law said, there is no need to cry. This is a funeral. At that time, my son was a little over one year old, and five generations lived under one roof. This was the first time I met him. My mother-in-law and those aunts all say that old people are good. Although the old man lived for so long, he really didn't drag anyone down.

Therefore, it is not necessarily a blessing for the elderly to live too long, and this sentence is not so certain. I don't know what the old man thinks, because when he died, his memory declined a little. I often can't remember, but for us juniors, he is really a long-lived person who is not annoying.

The reason why old people live to be 100 years old is also annoying. I think:

1. Because the elderly are healthy, they can eat and sleep. He doesn't need the care of these grandchildren, he can take care of himself, go to the toilet and do everything by himself, and he doesn't need his grandchildren to stay in front of the bed and shit and pee.

He doesn't live with his children and grandchildren because he can take care of himself. If he does, I'm sure the old man won't live that long.

Children and grandchildren are only responsible for three meals a day, and there is nothing to complain about. Without living together and having so many disputes, the old people are very happy. Young people don't say they are upset when they see old people.

Old people's longevity is not necessarily a blessing. Everything has probability events, and my grandfather can be said to be a blessing.

If the old man can't take care of himself after living for a hundred years, the result can be imagined, and future generations will certainly complain behind his back. Now, it has been ten years since my grandfather died. Never heard her mother-in-law say anything bad about him. Every time I talk about him, I say he is good.

Since my grandfather lived for so long, I have understood a truth that human health is happiness.

Whether you are young or old, if you lose the ability to take care of yourself and lose your health, then everything will be zero. Only a healthy body has dignity.

Nowadays, many people know that smoking is harmful to health or smoking, and staying up late is harmful to health or staying up late. I didn't regret it until my body turned red.

So whether you live to 100 or 60, a healthy body is the capital and dignity of your life.

Old people live too long: it is not necessarily a blessing. My opinion is as follows.

The first condition must be good health, basically free from basic diseases, flexible legs and feet, clear head and normal diet. Among them, the main conditions are: it is indispensable to be accompanied by filial children.

If you are unhealthy and often get sick, it will be very painful. Can you be happy or not? Can you be a blessing? Can't walk, can't get up, and lie at home all day, can you say happiness? This is not a blessing. Thinking all day, confused, unaware of things, north and south, without thinking, can you be happy? If you can't eat normally, it's like machine feeding. That's a sin!

Take my mother for example. She lived to 105. She has occasional ailments, a normal diet and daily life, and occasional unclear thinking ability. Until she lay down four or five days before her death, she gradually reduced her diet and stopped drinking, and her thinking ability gradually disappeared and eventually died.

This kind of life should be regarded as a blessing!

My grandfather died at 94. 9 12 years old, with a strong body and a huge appetite, can eat more than one bowl at a time, wander around the village after dinner, communicate with people, and have clear logic and quick response. He even read books (he was fascinated by the theory of geomantic omen in his later years and bought a bunch of books on divination to study on the carpet), and discussed and argued with his peers who came to ask for advice for a long time. At that time, we all hoped and believed that he could live a long life.

But then, somehow, things suddenly took a turn for the worse. There is nothing wrong with being blind and deaf. The key is to lose your mind gradually. At first, I was wordy, nagging and talking to myself, but gradually it was difficult to communicate. Finally, I completely ignore people and immerse myself in my own world. Sometimes just after dinner, he insists that he hasn't eaten yet and wants to pack it for him, but he can't eat it. Sometimes someone is in front of him, and he insists on looking for that person all over the world, insisting that the person in front of him is not the one he is looking for. Although I don't have incontinence, I sometimes put my clothes on backwards or forget to button them, which makes some children in the village run after the stupid old man.

Once, he accidentally fell down and rolled down the hillside. The old man's bones are fragile and it is difficult to recover after injury. Grandpa is ill in bed. He can't move. He can only talk. He often swears that my father doesn't see anyone all day. In fact, my father had died of illness at that time, but I just couldn't bear to tell my grandfather. At that time, I really felt that longevity was not necessarily a blessing, and sometimes it was simply a torture. Although I was brought up by my grandfather, I had deep feelings for him since I was a child, but he died, and I didn't feel too much sorrow, and even thought it was a relief for him. Once read an article, an old man told his children that if one day he died and didn't need rescue, he would rather leave quietly and peacefully than linger with a bunch of musical instruments and pipes. Of course the children will feel sorry for this, but what the old man said is actually quite reasonable, at least in my opinion.

It is not necessarily a blessing for old people to live too long, I agree.

Children rush about to serve their loved ones, and filial piety is difficult to fulfill their dreams.

If you get a number, you will come. My parents are happy every day.