There is a gap of more than 20 years between elder sister and elder brother. Can I have a second child?

This incident makes me feel a little incredible. My elder sister is more than 20 years older than my younger brother and sister. This age gap is too big, a whole generation behind. The younger brother is more than one year older than his son, which is like a joke. In the future, when two children play together, especially when they are not sensible and can't tell who is who, how should they address each other?

Indeed, now that the second or even third child is released, some people feel that a child at home is a bit lonely, so they have the idea of having a second or even third child. A few years ago, a colleague of mine gave birth to a second child at the age of 49. If their first child is only in his teens, the gap between the two children is not too big. This situation is acceptable, but parents are a little old and take their children out as grandparents.

I can accept that the age span between your children is not more than ten years old. If I'm over ten, I think it's a little big. The main reason is that the gap between the two children is too big, they are not at the same age, and there will be a big generation gap when they live together. It may even lead to some contradictions and problems between the two children.

Some people around me don't want a second child because they are worried about this reason. The first child is in his teens, and the first child is firmly opposed to having a second child at this time. Because of this, many people give up the plan of having a second child. Because they don't want to hurt their first child because of this.

If a family really wants to have another child, it should be carefully considered. It's best to ask the advice of the first child, or explain the truth to him, and don't cause him a great psychological burden because of this.