"Wife, my sister and I are both busy. Please resign and take care of your mother." Husband's filial piety is selfish, don't you think?

For modern people, the care of parents has always been a difficult problem. In the past, it was often said that "raising children to prevent old age" was because sons were usually taken care of by their parents. Now, both sons and daughters are far away from their parents for their own work and life. Even if their parents are taken over, everyone is too busy to work all day. The ultimate responsibility for taking care of parents often falls on the daughter-in-law.

Xiao Yang and her husband got married for a year and had a child. Her parents-in-law are far away in the countryside, busy with work all day, and the children are taken care of by grandparents.

A few years later, Xiao Yang's husband made a small achievement. With a new big house, he took his parents-in-law to live together, but the good times did not last long. Because his parents-in-law are older, they always have various minor problems and need to go to the hospital for treatment. Her husband had to take time off to accompany him all the time, which not only affected his normal work, but also exhausted him physically and mentally. Although my husband still has a younger sister, he can't help at all in another city. This has been going on for a year, and my husband really can't stand it. He said to Xiao Yang, "Wife, my sister and I are not free, and you don't earn much money. Why don't you quit your job and take care of your family? " But Xiao Yang didn't agree, so they quarreled about it.

I have to say that Xiao Yang's husband is really a dutiful son, but at the same time, he should also have a deep understanding of how tired it is to take care of his family and parents. He asked Xiao Yang to resign and take care of his family without consulting him at all. How could Xiao Yang agree?

In the family, the right to speak should not be determined by income, and both parties should give each other fair status and due respect.

Although Xiao Yang's salary is lower than her husband's, her job is stable and she has her own social circle. Husband asked Xiao Yang to give up his job and take care of his family, which is equivalent to asking Xiao Yang to give up his current career and engage in a job that he is completely unfamiliar with, and it is still unpaid and forced. Xiao Yang must have resisted in his heart.

In fact, Xiao Yang's husband can discuss with Xiao Yang to solve his own difficulties and family situation. If Xiao Yang doesn't resign, can he consider hiring a nanny? Are both parents yours? Xiao Yang's husband should not take responsibility by himself, but should discuss with his sister how to solve his parents' problems. After the three parties discuss together, they should finally be able to come up with a good solution.

Perhaps, after weighing the pros and cons, the final result is that Xiao Yang resigned to take care of his family, but the nature is completely different. Xiao Yang was not forced, but volunteered. In addition, everyone gave Xiao Yang full respect and status. Xiao Yang gave up his favorite job and chose to take care of his family. Her sacrifice was great, and everyone should be grateful to her.