Gansu advocates that every family opposes high-priced bride price. What is the significance of this move? How to break the sky-high bride price?

The significance of opposing high-priced bride price is twofold:

The first is to ease the opposition between men and women. The opposition between men and women on the Internet is particularly serious. As long as the bride price is involved, male and female netizens launch comments attacking each other on the Internet. Women think men are too poor. If a man doesn't give a bride price, he doesn't love himself, or he doesn't want to get married, or he is irresponsible to women. Men think that women who want a bride price regard marriage as a business, and the moral kidnapping of men is simply to marry for money and not to love men. Moreover, this opposition between men and women has extended to all aspects of life. As long as boys and girls quarrel, male netizens and female netizens attack each other online, which is a very bad internet atmosphere. If the high-priced bride price is controlled, then male netizens will not complain so much, and female netizens will not be so arrogant.

The second is to promote the marriage rate and fertility rate. Many young people are afraid to get married because the bride price is too high. Men don't want to take their parents' savings for half a life and their savings for several years as a bride price. They think such a life is meaningless. Once they get married, they will be trapped in the sky. If they get divorced, the bride price will be ruined, and the price is too high, so there is no need to get married. Women think that men can't get married without such a high bride price, so why should they be nannies and fertility machines for others and reduce their quality of life? If the sky-high bride price can be controlled, then both men and women are more willing to get married and have children.

Ways to break the high-priced bride price:

First, we should persuade online emotional experts to say more positive words. Don't deliberately raise the bride price to cater to women and encourage women to oppress men. This will only make the bride price higher and higher. Emotional experts should teach young people how to fall in love, instead of taking marriage as an opportunity to get a bride price, so that young people can fall in love more easily and get married naturally and easily.

Second, relevant departments should introduce policies. Once a marriage with high bride price is found, the woman should be asked to return the bride price immediately. If it is found that the bride price is too high and the two have contradictions, the marriage should be revoked, and there is no need to limit the cooling-off period for divorce.