Will men be helpless in modern society? Why are women afraid to see men's tears? If a man tears, don't get me wrong, this is

Everyone is very helpless, very helpless.

Sometimes, people just don't show it to you.

That's all. Five modes of transshipment. When I am unlucky, I have five suggestions:

Step one, don't think you can't do anything about the status quo. Make up your mind to control the situation and don't be a victim of bad luck.

Step two, act now. Either next week, tomorrow or now.

Step three, make a list and write down all the methods you can take. Think of some creative ways. Please jump out of the limitations of thinking. Try to look at the problem from different angles. Try brainstorming. Try to think of all possible solutions, no matter how stupid or absurd they seem. You can also ask your friends what they would do in the same situation. Constantly add possible solutions to the list.

Step four, decide what you want to do next. Consider every possible solution. How long does each method take? Do you have the necessary knowledge and skills to realize this method? If you decide to take a certain method, what may lead to it?

The fifth, final and most important step is to solve the problem. Of course, sometimes waiting is a better solution than acting rashly-if your inaction is not a simple delay, but a part of the plan, that's fine. At the same time, be prepared to adjust your solution as the situation changes. Self-control and flexibility are the key factors to becoming lucky. But the point is that you should start solving the problem instead of staring at it.