Why do you work hard, but the result is not satisfactory? Luo Xiang has already told you the answer.

Is there anyone who, like me, has been obsessed with the words "Heaven rewards diligence", believing that as long as you work hard, you will have a good ending, but in fact it always ends in failure.

Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. After studying for so long, nine times out of ten I still can't accept that.

I always ask myself, what's the problem? Is it really because I didn't try my best to make a living, or is there another reason?

It was not until I saw Luo Xiang's answer that I was relieved. He said:

"Without the help of others and the blessing of fate, you are nothing."

Luo Xiang told a story about his fear and awe of fate. Once, during his visit to the United States, he wanted to find a picnic place in Berkeley, California. The road was narrow, and he unconsciously stepped on the brakes. He doesn't know why he stepped on the brake, but a tire is already on the cliff.

According to normal people's reaction, it should be to hit the steering wheel, but at that moment, a car roared by, that is to say, if you hit the steering wheel at that time, you would also be knocked off the cliff.

Looking back now, if it weren't for the protection of fate, he would have been gone, and all his dreams and life plans would have vanished, just a joke.

At a certain stage, people will believe in the existence of fate. There is a saying that as long as you work hard, God has his own arrangements.

First, people always have limitations. Even if you are as perfect as possible, you can't draw a perfect pattern.

Last year's hit TV series "Thirty without Nothing", Gu Jia, starring in nursery rhymes, is a woman who pursues perfection.

From children's school to socks worn by her husband, she pursues perfection. From the company to the home, she is more comprehensive. She can talk about business when she goes out, make cakes and cook delicious dinner when she comes in, but such a perfect woman can't stop the invasion of a third party.

Finally, I always feel that Gu Jia is not worthy of sympathy, because it is too tiring to live with such people.

All-inclusive life is always free and easy, just like an old lady with her feet tied, and she is uncomfortable everywhere.

Life is tired enough, relax yourself once in a while, even if you lie flat.

We are always on the road to perfection. Our children should go to the best kindergarten and our husbands should have a successful career. We should try our best to get from the hall to the kitchen, but will there really be no ink spots?

The best education for children is not to be educated, but to teach by example and convey the desire for knowledge.

For the husband, everyone's ability is limited, and it may be impossible to reach someone's starting point again and again. The most important thing for people to live is health and satisfaction, otherwise no amount of money can make them happy.

For women, besides these labels, you are still yourself. You also have a comfortable day without washing your face, and there are also scenes of laughing and laughing with your girlfriends.

Everyone can't draw a perfect picture, but imperfection is a perfect life.

All we can do is listen to the rain in summer, see the leaves in autumn, enjoy the snow in winter and go to Qiu Lai in spring. The time you want will always give you the answer.

He Jiong said in "The Life of Yearning":

"The happiest thing for people is not to have everything, but to arrange their lives calmly."

Second, no matter whether you succeed or not, you will be wronged.

Ma Weidou once said:

In the first half of my life. Luo Zijun thinks he is a perfect wife, but her husband is still cheating, and the other party is still ugly. She is wronged and sad, but what can she change?

There is no one in this world who is not wronged. There will always be a grievance in life that will make you grow up instantly.

The cost of growth is too high, which is a frustrating process. You work hard, but you still can't get the appreciation of the leader.

The breakfast you have worked so hard to prepare may be nothing more than that in the eyes of your lover.

That's how you feel wronged day by day, become stronger day by day, and then tell yourself "let go"

We can't ask others to feel our feelings, but we have the right to swallow this grievance and move on.

Those years that you will remember in the future have gradually disappeared into the clouds, giving you yourself wearing a golden mask, so powerful that even you admire yourself.

Third, don't always think that you will succeed as long as you have the ability. Familiarity with it is the key to success.

The first issue of Round Table School, Zhou Yijun, talked about a friend who specializes in personal wealth management and contacts with the richest people. Then Zhou Yijun asked his friend, "Can you tell me what kind of people these people are and what kind of people can make such a big fortune?"

Then the friend said, "There are three kinds of people. One is an entrepreneur, who invented himself, just like Jobs. Either inherit the inheritance or have a senior wage earner working in a high-end place like McKinsey. "

So Zhou Yijun asked again, "Do they have any secrets to make so much money?"

The friend said, "It's all the same, just lucky, lucky."

How many people also have Jobs' talent, but not necessarily Jobs' achievements, status and wealth.

All this is luck, not only hard work, but also pure luck.

Zhuangzi said:

"It is extremely virtuous to know that you can't do it."

Xiaomi Leijun said: People who achieve great things do not rely on cleverness or diligence, but just follow the trend.

No one will say that I only got here through hard work, but it is not. In fact, it is a blessing of fate and conforms to the times.

People will make peace with themselves when they reach a certain age. Those who have tried hard and still have no results may be reminded by God to change their ways.

We can't just walk with our heads down without looking up. You missed not only the opportunity, but also the scenery.

Fate is a complete accident, an accident beyond life. You never know when he will change your life because of a little point.

There are always unpredictable stomps and confessions in life. Maybe all your efforts are not enough to support a point.

Life needs the call of the god of wisdom, and we should try our best to follow the trend. If we are destined to be an ordinary person, we should also strive to be that ordinary happy person.