"It is your responsibility to take care of the children, but my mother has no obligation." what do you think?

0 1 I think this person is right. His mother really has no obligation to help them with their children. Children are husband and wife, so take care of yourself.

However, the wife has to work to support the family, or how to repay the mortgage, how to drive, and the husband has to work to earn money, or can't live. In this case, who should take care of the children? Is it true that whoever cares about his children will help take care of them? So now most of them are grandmothers with children.

It is your responsibility to take care of the children. I can't accept this "yours". Isn't that child filial to his father when he grows up? So don't draw the responsibility so clearly. What is yours, mine, you are a family, you are the father of the child, you have the responsibility and obligation to take care of the child, and you love your mother dearly. As a wife, you can understand, then you have to pay more for this family and take on more responsibilities!

First, advise your mother-in-law to help if you can, and don't wait for help but have no chance to help! Nowadays, young people are really hard and have a lot of pressure in life. They have to spend money everywhere to pay off the mortgage, buy a car, raise children and live expenses. This man earned 1 000 yuan in June, which is not used as money in this family!

See the reality clearly, help your son, daughter-in-law and wife, take the children with you, and take money if you can't, so that they can live a good life, so that you will have no worries in the future.

What do you say if your son doesn't get along with your daughter-in-law, and your daughter-in-law runs away and the child doesn't want it? You should not only take care of your son, but also take care of your grandson and the whole family's food and drink, so when your daughter-in-law is still in this family, be kind to her, help her more and let her live with your son, and you will have a chance to enjoy the future.

Second, parents are advised to take care of their children if they can. Parents educate their children differently! Father shouldn't put the blame on mother. Taking care of children is a matter for two people. Be sure to remember, what kind of children are raised by mothers? I think I will be weak, timid and afraid of things. What will happen to the children raised by dad? Bold but cautious, super smart. What will the children raised by grandma be like? Pass the buck, make trouble without reason, and even exclude others.

Therefore, with the permission of the family, husband and wife should share their children's education problems as much as possible, find problems in time and correct them in time, so as to cultivate excellent children.

Summary: Personally, the elderly are not advised to take care of their children. I hope my father can take care of the children. However, according to the topic, this father should be an irresponsible father. He is male chauvinist and thinks that taking care of children is a woman's business. If this idea continues, I'm afraid your wife will have a hard time with you and eventually get divorced!

One person carries water, two people carry water, and that water is a child. If two people share the burden, the weight will be reduced by half, and less water will be spilled. It will be easy for each other, won't it?