How to chat with a blind date

How to chat with a blind date

1. The minefield of chatting

1. Check-the-meter conversation: Male: Are you there, Female: Yes, Male: You What year are you from? Female: 90. Male: What a height. Female: 163

Summary: Chatting like this makes people feel very straight. People are not rigid machines. Dry conversations are easy. Being blocked by the other party.

2. Evaluate each other casually

Male: You are so beautiful that many people should be chasing you. Female: No. Male: How many times have you been in love? Female: Never. Man: Then there’s nothing wrong with you, right?

Summary: People who like to judge others casually are either typical people-pleasing personalities or typical arrogant personalities. Both personalities are very unpleasant. Women like it.

3. Tell the truth

Male: My name is I'm anxious, so I want to find a marriage partner as soon as possible. What do you think of me? Female: It's okay. Male: Then tell me your views and interests and let me see if we are suitable. Female: No

Summary: Blind date is a process of getting to know each other. You take the initiative to explain everything to the other person. On the surface, you seem to be very down-to-earth, but in the eyes of girls, you have no sense of mystery, and the motivation to continue to get along with you is gone. Nothing left.

2. How to chat with your blind date

1. Establish a tacit understanding

When you meet your blind date for the first time, girls will definitely be wary of you psychologically. If you are overly flattering, caring, or casually commenting during a chat, girls will only label you with a "bad impression." Therefore, you want to quickly disarm the other party. You can establish a tacit understanding through humorous exchange of information. You must know that once two people establish a tacit understanding, they will also establish an emotional connection. Example:

Male: By the way, I don’t know your name yet

Female: Just call me Xinxin, what do you call me

Male : Zhao XX, or call me shy brother

Female: Little brother, what do you do for a living?

Male: I work in an Internet company and work overtime every day until I vomit blood

Female: We have been working overtime recently, and we have a lot of clients at the end of the year. Male: This is our first tacit handshake

2. Humor

If your date always likes to deal with you chat, it means that your chat topics are not nutritious, and girls cannot enjoy the fun of chatting with you. Therefore, it is better to change your chatting style and express ordinary topics in a humorous and funny way. When girls' emotions are satisfied after being happy, they will naturally like to get along with you.

Example:

Male: Looking at your photos, I think you are quite cute

Female: I don’t think I am cute

Male: That You are responsible for being funny, I am responsible for being cute

Female: Haha, how cute are you?

Male: Every cell in me from head to toe is full of pure green and lovable. Girl: Haha. , what you said made me think of Lu Zhi Yi Duo Sui

Male: Whatever you like, as long as you like

3. Ambiguous flirting

The purpose of blind date is When you are in love or getting married, if your chat with a girl remains at the friend stage, you will eventually fall into the friendship zone. The so-called friendship zone means that the other party only regards you as a friend and cannot experience the feeling of love at all.

So we need to seize the window and take the initiative to launch an attack. From the initial shallow expression of interest, we can gradually talk about intimate topics. Intimate topics include: going shopping hand in hand, hugging, kissing, etc., intimate The titles include: baby, baby, cutie, etc.

Example: Male: How tall are you?

Female: 165. How about you

Male: 177. We are the cutest height difference" (express interest)

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Female: Isn’t the cutest height difference 15%?

Male: It means standing on tiptoes is just right. Standing on tiptoes and lifting the hem of skirt. Girl: You really make yourself more dramatic

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Male: Yes, I am the leading and supporting actor both in and out of the play

Female: Your tricks to flirt with girls are too deep

Male: No, if you want to blame me The weird baby is so cute.. (warm and ambiguous address)

Female: Tsk, where do you work! (Girls taking the initiative to ask questions show that there is a window)

3. Prepare all-purpose topics< /p>

If you want to chat happily with your blind date, you must prepare a chat topic library in advance and select the topics that the other party is most interested in. When you have established the same topic, next Chatting with girls has become much easier. Topics suitable for chatting with girls include: pets, celebrities, gossip, cosmetics, brand-name fashion, games, food, travel, TV movies, variety shows, music, childhood, future, and ideals< /p>