Why do I hate "positive energy" and "chicken soup for the soul" (part two)

Now entering the society, I find that more and more people around me advocate and advocate such things as "positive energy" and "chicken soup for the soul". I don't know why, but I feel sick and disgusted, and I have no inspiration.

For those who admire and believe in these things, I can be roughly divided into three categories:

The first kind. Those who encounter difficulties, confusion, sadness and sadness in life.

Those so-called inspirational stories and words are still true or false. One of its functions is to comfort yourself when you are sad, confused, confused and sad. Just like painkillers, make yourself less painful. This is understandable, after all, people will lose their direction and motivation. It's no problem to come here at this time. But for people who have poor self-control and are addicted to these things. There is nothing to say. It's good to live in an unreal world all your life, to some extent.

The second kind. It is the one I despise, hate and dislike the most. I call them "hypocrites"

Now we will find a phenomenon that people who are obviously living well are also praising these things. My opinion is moaning without illness. It is even more annoying than the decadent and negative clothes of those so-called literary youths. In my eyes, those who have jobs, income, good family background, no goals or unclear goals don't know what they can do, what they want to do and what they want to do. There will be nothing to "motivate" yourself and make yourself a person with ideals, goals and willingness to struggle in the eyes of others. Make yourself a good person in your eyes. Build an illusory and perfect self.

Come to think of it, this is a terrible thing. I feel excellent and perfect. Let others feel the same way. What about the facts? Just a hypocritical, stupid and ugly person. We are all the same. But basically no one will describe and accept themselves like this. So everyone learned to pretend. But one day, the hypocritical side will eventually collapse, revealing its ugly self and finding itself hypocritical, stupid and ugly. If you can't even face yourself and accept yourself, how can you improve yourself?

The third kind. People who are correct, clear and know themselves.

For this group of people, positive energy and chicken soup for the soul are a joke to some extent. Even if you have already seen it. Because these people clearly understand what they want, what they want, and can pay for it. You don't need to rely on external things to stimulate. A person who can accomplish his goal by his own efforts. Although there may be times when I lack confidence and motivation, I will make adjustments and reflect on myself.

On second thought, they are not the archetypes of people who cook chicken soup for the soul.

They cook chicken soup, eat meat for themselves and drink soup for others.

In short, these two words look very positive and bring people the meaning of hope and longing. But! What matters is this, but ... Is this really our reality?

When each of us is facing the most difficult and difficult life, I think what we need most is not to build a beautiful, illusory and beautiful illusion. In fact, when you feel low, what you do, or even do nothing, is to make things better.

So, please come on, do what you should do now with a better and better attitude in the future, and at the same time, prepare for the worst. Neither supercilious nor supercilious, neither anxious nor impatient. Even if you fall, stand up and smile.

Life is painful.

Take your time, it's faster.