How did happiness come from?

I took photos yesterday morning, got my certificate in the afternoon, and hastily wrote 5,000 words in the evening. When I posted this article on today's headlines, to my surprise, by the time I wrote this article, there were nearly 900,000 readings, and 99% of the more than 500 comments were blessings.

I am very touched by my own story, which can let everyone see the beauty. What surprises me even more is that the love of many readers is so beautiful.

In fact, no matter what the result is, I have always believed in love and dared to do it. As long as I believe, I will go on without hesitation.

We often say that it is very rare to meet someone who likes each other. Perhaps in the vast sea of people, there is only a chance of 0.0005438+0%, but why do many people still get happiness? Because many times, happiness is always earned by yourself.

In this world, there has never been happiness for no reason. You have feelings for someone, but you think too much and don't do it; You have a crush on someone and want to confess, but you dare not; You have encountered emotional setbacks, entangled with each other and failed to solve the problem; You are in a foreign land and very tired of love, so you broke up. In fact, many people have love, but they always go their separate ways for various reasons.

Life is like this, some people are yours and you can't escape after all; If it wasn't yours, he would still leave. Can you follow your heart, solve problems well, don't torture each other, maybe there will be happiness.

Many of us, in our feelings, will make a common fault, encounter problems, doubt everything, and doubt that everything is wrong. I used to be so naive, very insecure and suspicious. In fact, if we think about it carefully, we should be brave enough to accept bad results and should not choose to give up just because something is bad. In front of the opportunity, you seize it, and the road may be difficult; If you can't catch it, maybe you'll never be involved again.

Think more about the nature of things and don't torture each other at any time. People, like this, are tired of torture and entanglement.

Many people say I am lucky, but in fact only those who have really experienced it will really understand how difficult it is. In fact, no one in this world is luckier than anyone else. The key is whether you are keenly aware of your happiness and do it boldly like an adult.

I just saw many warm stories that have the same experience as me, and sorted them out and shared them with everyone who believes in love (ta) and me (ni).

Two? Some real and ordinary warm stories

1, @ user 83944506

My wife and I are also online dating. I am abroad and she is at home. After three years of long-distance running in love, under the opposition of everyone, 14 received the certificate. The wedding was held on 15. We had a baby on 16. I really appreciate my wife. You chose me when I had nothing!

2. Toona sinensis buds of @ Aifu Mask

My husband and I were in a long-distance relationship and finally got married. From love to marriage, we have experienced a lot. At first, my in-laws said that they had never met before and didn't know what life was like. They disagree with my husband. If they can't marry me, they will never get married. Finally, their in-laws agreed to get married and live with them. However, we never take it to heart, and it is still a harmonious way. The bittersweet taste of this product is the only thing that makes me feel sour, and tears come out unconsciously. When I got married, I couldn't bear to see all my relatives who sent me back, leaving me alone to cry in that strange family. Seeing someone else get married, still worried about others, I still can't help crying. There is no one in my heart.

3.@ Stranded

A girl went to a strange city for love, and felt no home when quarreling. This sentence pokes tears. In 2006, online games met on March 5, 2007. Before that, the video was played twice for a few minutes each time. /kloc-got married in September of 0/2, and now my son is almost two years old. I walked to him from my hometown thousands of miles away just because I still believe in love.

4.@ Lucky 1 1

My husband and I met in June 20 15, and we got together on February 8 this year. We got the license on June 8, and we won't hold the banquet until next year. Last night, I sent a circle of friends to say when to have dinner and watch a movie together, which became such a luxury. He came to dinner and movies with me last night, because we are usually very busy, and he is busy until 6548 every day. Open your own shop at 9 am and go back at night 10. He comes to see me 2-3 times a week to accompany me to get the goods. Because it's too late, I don't have time to go to the movies for dinner or anything. He always said that I had lost a lot of weight and told me to eat on time. I'm really happy to have him …

5.@ mywood DZ

/kloc met her husband in 0/0, got married in 0/3, had a lovely baby in 0/5, and left our hometown with the baby in 0/6. When I first came to Tianjin, my job was not ideal and my income was not high, but I fell in love and lived happily. In the future, I hope we can do well and stay happy.

6.@ wading 83 18985

I get up at six in the morning and feel bored. I read your article, put down my cell phone and rolled over to hug my husband. He hugged me too. 28, next year will be the home of three people.

7 、@hrl 123

/kloc-I met at the age of 0/5,/kloc-fell in love at the age of 0/7, got married at the age of 23, and bought my first car. At the age of 24, she welcomed her daughter and bought her first house. I am 27 years old, and we have been in love for 10 years. From nothing to hands, no background, no backer. I hope all lovers are well, girl. Don't be afraid of poverty, for fear that he is not self-motivated, irresponsible and unfilial.

8.@ Mu Xiaoji

During the winter vacation of my junior year, I met Hao Ge through the Internet. He is a soldier. At the beginning of 20 10, I got up the courage to meet him in the army. He tried his best to please me, got married on 20 12, and my little daughter arrived on 20 13, as sweet as ever. He always said that there are two treasures at home, I am Dabao and my daughter is Bao Xiao ... In a flashy world, love can't buy bread, but finding love is precious! Gratitude, let's meet in the best years …

9.@ obscene

Bless you. That's how my husband and I got here. We fell in love in our junior year and took the postgraduate entrance examination in the fifth year (our five-year medical program). He went to Nanjing, and I stayed in our school (North). We also quarreled and broke up briefly. After 265,438+0 days, he skipped classes from Nanjing and came to me, thinking that he would ignore him, but when we met, it was as if nothing had happened. After graduation, he stayed to work in a city in the south and I followed him. In the second year of work, I got married with a license, got married naked, had no money, no car and no house, and my parents didn't want anything, so I asked for 1000 yuan symbolically and married me. Now we have worked for five years, bought a house and a car, and have a lovely three-year-old son. There is still a long way ahead, so cherish _

10, @ That scenery

After reading your article, I really think a lot of things suit me. He is a man in the north and I am a girl in the south. Four years ago, my little sister's boyfriend gave me WeChat because of his joke, but for several years, he has either not contacted or even contacted. He came to see me in Huzhou on a business trip in Shanghai by chance, which doomed us for life, although I thought there would be no love at the age of 29.

1 1, @ We will grow old together.

In a daze, married her husband. I'm not particularly excited or reluctant. Just like eating and sleeping. I didn't even get my nails and hair done when I got engaged. Now I feel so grand to see my brother and sister get married. I feel very lost, but I am very happy after marriage. I've been happy all my life.

12, @ Shouhu

Yes, my husband and I have been in love since our sophomore year in 2009, and it has been seven years now. In the past seven years, we have been on and off countless times, facing running-in, contradictions, quarrels, family opposition, material challenges and comments from relatives and friends! And so on, everything becomes soft over time. Seven years ago, we only had pure love. Seven years later, in order to get married, we got plenty of bread. We have worked hard for this relationship, and we have a car, a house and a career. Perhaps this is the substantive framework of marriage, and the two families are much more peaceful and cordial. In nine days, we will have a wedding. Although we got a marriage certificate a year ago! But it seems that the wedding is the real happiness. I am looking forward to it, and I thank my husband for his tolerance and persistence over the years. Thank you.

13, @ bailichao

I met my wife at the age of 20 and got married at the age of 26. Now we have two babies, a boy and a girl. Only by sticking to each other can love last. I wish you a long time!

14, @ Guo Conghui

It was very fierce with my family, but later he would talk to you and ask for a step down. I also calm down and slowly sort out the reasons. Finally, I think there is nothing wrong. It is fate to meet and cherish each other.

15, @ Li Muzi

1 1.8 is also my husband's wedding anniversary. After two years of love and five years of marriage, he always hurts me. His mouth is so stupid that he can't even speak sweet words on the neck of the knife rest. In the past few years, he has never remembered our wedding anniversary, but he is really good to me! I am very grateful, I hope we can be dull and happy until we are old!

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My husband and I are high school classmates. My husband is a typical science and engineering nerd. At that time, I thought we were really pure friendship. When I graduated from high school, I joked with my husband that we would get married after graduating from college. My mink coat depends on you, and there is nothing wrong with college. Let's continue our friendship. After graduating from college, I learned from my classmate that he always liked me, so I told him, why don't we try ... Then he agreed, and then my son is almost three years old, and now he is very happy.

Many people say that it is the fast food age, who will seriously fall in love? Now it's time to say two words of love, three words of love and see you in seven days. I don't believe it, we can make fun of it, we don't believe it, but we can't hide our desire for happiness anyway. Why are we moved to see the pure love story? Is it because it is too fake and unreal, or because we are eager to have such a person around us? In fact, at any time, stories come from life; Any touching story has the shadow of you and me in life.

Because we are human beings, people with flesh and blood and feelings.

Only those who have experienced it will really understand what feelings will be like. There is a misunderstanding here. The prince and princess finally come together, will they really live happily together?

What is happiness? Have a good life and realize your wish, and you will feel very happy; But there are many contradictions, and if you have a bad life, you will not be happy. In fact, happiness is often felt with heart. Rich people may not feel happy; And the poor also have their own little happiness.

People should not live a lifetime for utilitarian reasons, but ignore the life they really want. Plain and comfortable is the greatest happiness.

When I was a child, I always saw an ending, "The prince and the princess lived happily together". Actually, it won't, because there will still be hardships. Those seemingly happy lives are not without contradictions, but know how to resolve and understand each other.

In this world, you are alive, where there will be contradictions, how can two people be as sweet as honey every day? Life is mixed, but the difference is, how do you solve the contradiction?

If it is solved, your life will continue; And contradictions accumulate to a certain extent, and you may go your separate ways without getting out of the obstacles in your heart.

This is the given result, and each of us is experiencing such a life.

A misunderstanding often seen in feelings, a bad result, do you want to accept it? 1, many times, we can't get what we want, and life is often a variable, which no one can predict. Before we face important choices, ask ourselves what we want. What are you worried about? What is the reason for the quarrel between two people?

2. More often, we are entangled in our own hearts and can't get past them. Try to consider many aspects of the problem, analyze it carefully, and once you make a decision according to your own mind, don't regret it. What's there to regret about following your heart?

Many times, a clear conscience is also the greatest luck.

3, in the face of feelings, you may wish to be bold. Opportunity should be grasped by yourself, and happiness should be won by yourself. There will never be happiness for no reason in this world. What you see about the happiness of others is achieved through painstaking efforts.

If you don't grasp the opportunity and miss it, you can only blame yourself. Think about what you have done and what you can do in the future to avoid similar problems!

We can all say a word. I'm scared. What are you afraid of? What you are really afraid of is the ridicule of others and the intimidation of your parents. What are you afraid of? What you are afraid of is your own heart, afraid that you can't achieve what you want and be right by others.

You have to believe the fact that not many people will care about you except your parents. And whether you are happy or not is not determined by what others say. During this period, there is no causal relationship.

Many times, with your heart, let nature take its course, and it will follow.

4. Accept any possible result and learn to be responsible for yourself. Many times, feelings may not be accepted as we wish. Good results and bad results are just a matter of relativity. Good or bad is never decisive, but how do you solve the problem?

You choose to avoid the problem and give up. You can't blame others, only yourself. How can you be happy when you envy others? I don't know how much others have paid for this.

Even if two people get married, life after marriage may be dangerous, which is normal. There is no such thing as eternity. How do you make it different?

Be a sunny person, whether in feelings, life or work. I used to be bursting with negative energy, with a bad personality and a bad temper. As a result, I have no friends, and I can have a quarrel with anyone. My personality is honest and frank, and I take myself too seriously, which leads to my loneliness.

This is a very bad phenomenon, after all, we live in society. I changed my temper and started to make fun of it. Gradually, I have more friends around me, and my way of looking at problems has also changed a lot.

In feelings, you can be willful, but you can't grow up forever. You can't be a child forever, you can play with your temper willfully, even your closest relatives, you can hurt without scruple, but more often you regret it. How could you do such a thing?

Everyone has shortcomings, try to accept them, and slowly correct them to become better people. Good love will make you both better people, and lovers who realize this are very happy in metropolis.

Be a person with inner sunshine. Do you believe in the law of attraction? What kind of person you are, you will attract what kind of people. There are similarities between people and they are attracted to each other. That is to see what you like, and then you have feelings.

Many people have asked me, what should I do if I can't meet love in my life?

None of us are prophets. No one can predict when love will come. Who's watching you? However, even without him, we still have to live well; Even with him, I can solve the problem well when I encounter contradictions, which is a good thing. If you can't solve the problem, you miss it in a hurry.

In the world of adults, the road depends on yourself; And emotional road, married life, need two people * * * the same career. But at any time, your life is more than just love and marriage.

Everyone's life is the same. The key is how you choose, how you look at and how you live.

? A thoughtful housewife. Wechat official account: Liming ID: yibao 8690