When a man asks you what you are doing, how does a woman with high emotional intelligence respond?

1. I’m waiting for you to chat with me!

Usually when men chat, they will say: What are you doing? How should you answer at this time? Ordinary women may tell the truth and tell men truthfully, which can easily lead to awkward conversations and leave two people with nothing to say, but a woman with high emotional intelligence will say: I'm waiting for you to chat with me! Such words can arouse his desire to chat with you, and there will be no awkward chat.

2. I’m thinking of you!

Such words can only be used when it comes to crushes and boyfriends. If you tell your boyfriend that I'm thinking of you, the man will be very happy and think you care about him. What about your crush? You can use it as a test and tell him in a joking tone. If he rejects you tactfully, you can also pretend that you don't know anything. This is just a joke, so don't take it seriously. However, it is worth noting that , these words can only be used for boyfriends and crushes.

3. Guess!

Why women with high emotional intelligence are popular actually makes sense. They know how to speak and resolve embarrassment in time. When a man asks: What are you doing! A woman with high emotional intelligence will say: Guess what! These words create a sense of mystery for the other party. The less you know about something, the more you want to know. In fact, this is the truth.

4. I am thinking about what you are doing.

It depends on the man to understand what it means. But no matter what kind of understanding, it can mobilize the enthusiasm of men and set a good atmosphere for chatting.

For women with high emotional intelligence, chatting is not just chatting, but a way to secretly convey their feelings. Often letting the other party know something that cannot be said clearly in another way is the art of language and the embodiment of emotional intelligence.

5. Deliberately not answering, or changing the topic.

In this situation, a man with high emotional intelligence has already understood the woman's meaning. She has no feelings for you, so don't continue to ask questions.