What ideas do you have that seem reasonable but are illogical?

When I often quarrel with my girlfriend, he will say that he covers his face and does not speak. When I ask her, she will say, why are you asking me? You won’t change. Even if you say you want to change now, you will still do it again in the future. It doesn’t make sense for me to say so. In fact, what she said seemed very logical, but if you think about it carefully, her way or her thoughts were unreasonable.