Work hard yourself, others can’t help you

That day, I was chatting with a friend who worked in HR at the Municipal Mobile Company and talked about the issue of children’s education. He said that for state-owned enterprises like ours, when recruiting people, they first look at whether they have graduated from a 985 school.

My originally good mood suddenly became very stressful. In this case, people like me who have regretted working full-time and relying on self-study on-the-job education will not be able to find a job.

Back then, our colleagues often made fun of themselves together and talked about second careers, that is, if you didn’t do this job, what else would you do? Many colleagues said helplessly that these years In the past, apart from this job, I really didn’t know how to do anything else. If you apply for the job, priority will be given to similar work experience, and gate security is about the same.

This is not to say that security guards are not good, but it is a fact that the income is low. Although there is no distinction between high and low jobs, the Mao Zedong he receives every month is still very different.

I dare not think about a policeman who suddenly quit his job and changed his profession to become a security guard.

A few days ago, I had a family dinner with some close friends. My friend’s wife works in the county power supply department. She said: In fact, when we recruit college students, we also attach great importance to whether they graduated from 985 or 211. And you also have to understand "electricity". What's the meaning? In addition to the aura of a prestigious school, you also need to consider whether the major you studied meets the requirements of the recruiting unit. In other words, those who can quickly adapt to the work and "get started" immediately are most favored.

Is the bar so high? Alas, it is getting harder and harder to find a good job.

Good units all calculate costs, and no job is easy.

I am reminded of the words of our unit leader: Don’t think about how much money you will receive, think more about how much you are worth.

That makes sense, there is no place to raise idle people.

My classmate’s daughter was admitted to Tongji University as a graduate student this year. We had a few brief chats and it was her mother who recommended my WeChat account to her. Through communication on WeChat, I know that this is a diligent, hard-working and smart child. After the college entrance examination, he went to a prestigious school and then continued to study at a prestigious school. Her mother was the beauty of our high school, and her composition was often used as a model essay by the Chinese teacher in class. With such family influence and genetics, the child must be good.

Tango has loved painting since elementary school, and his works have been selected to participate in the United Nations National Exhibition and won awards. Although he is very talented, he followed his family's idea of ??"finding a more reliable major", so he chose science. And was admitted to the Mathematics Department of Shanghai Jiao Tong University. But his inner desire to paint never stopped. In his senior year, Tsinghua Academy of Fine Arts happened to recruit graduate students with a science background, and he was lucky enough to be admitted. From then on, his interesting playing card works entered our eyes. Life. Some people say, "This person has a very wide-open mind, and the bottom is bottomless." Who knows how hard he works behind this wide-open mind.

Everyone is looking forward to the pyramid, and the smarter and more sensible children are, the more they work towards the top of the pyramid.

But for other children, it doesn’t matter whether they are smart or not, they clearly don’t want to work hard. During my freshman year, I said I wanted to take a good rest and catch up on the sleep I missed in high school. When I was a sophomore, I wanted to find a relationship to talk about, otherwise I was afraid of being laughed at by others. When I was in my junior year, I remembered that I had to travel while I was young, and that I had to visit all the mountains and rivers of my motherland. When I was in my senior year, I suddenly felt that I had learned nothing. I just wanted to work hard and I graduated. Over the past four years, I have consumed my parents’ hard-earned money, and even my most precious youth.

The scariest thing is that you are ignorant, you don’t know how to do it, and you haven’t learned yet.

No one’s money comes by tide. When you are squandering your youth and freedom wantonly, your parents may be gritting their teeth where you can’t see them, wishing they could take care of all the problems themselves. But you They just don’t understand, or they pretend not to understand, they don’t see it, or they clearly see it but turn a blind eye.

The most important thing is simplicity. In fact, no one can be relied on. In the end, you can only rely on yourself.

I read "A Dream of Red Mansions" and admired two of the two people very much, because these two people have a "relatively clear consciousness." One is Qin Keqing.

But Qing entrusted Sister Mengfeng to say, "If we can't be extremely prosperous, honor and disgrace will come again and again since ancient times." "If you think that glory and splendor are endless now and don't think about the future, it will not be a long-term strategy." This is called being prepared for danger in times of peace. The second one is Tanchun. Tanchun was deeply touched by the critical situation that the Jia family was facing. She wanted to save it with minor reforms that "promoted advantages and eliminated disadvantages", but to no avail, and finally married away from home. This is called reform and innovation. The Jia family was as wealthy as any other country. Who would have thought that one day the building would collapse. However, things in the world are unpredictable, and the grand feast must break up. "After the three springs, all the fragrances will die out." Then we can only "each find his own door."

No one is anyone’s backer. The smartest thing to do is to stay away from the pot of warm water where the frog is boiled.

Vigilance is necessary.

Perhaps we should always think about this question: How can we make ourselves scarce, irreplaceable, or even unique.

If you haven’t achieved scarcity, irreplaceability, and uniqueness yet, then you should work hard.

No one can help you, you have to rely on yourself.