The mother-in-law is actively preparing for a second child. What did the son-in-law say to help her regain her sanity?

Mr. Tang is ten years older than his wife. Seeing that his wife was worried these days, he couldn't help but ask what was going on. As a result, his wife's answer also made him uneasy, but thinking about it afterwards made him laugh.

It turns out that my mother-in-law is actively preparing for a second child. Seeing that she is nearly fifty years old, she will fall out with whoever tries to persuade her. The doctor also said that giving birth to a baby at this age would be life-threatening, but the mother-in-law took her life as a sacrifice. She is willing, but she doesn’t know if she is willing to accept the birth of a second child! Seeing that the family had nothing to do with the old man, the son-in-law came to greet him and asked him three questions in succession.

1. Who will raise the child after he is born? Do you have the energy to take care of a baby? Eventually you will need your daughter's help.

2. As a mother, do you have the ability to breastfeed and take care of your baby yourself?

3. The cost of raising a child in today’s society is high. After the child is born, who will bear the cost of raising the child?

Mother-in-law, you are quite funny. You just answered that you are raising me as your son. The son-in-law blushed at the time and only said that the old man was joking. Raising children is not like raising pets, you can give birth to them and I can raise them. Will our children appreciate our unobtrusive approach when they grow up? This question completely sobered up the mother-in-law, and she never mentioned the matter of preparing for a second child again.

When we hear it, this is a joke, but if you are the person involved, you really don’t know what to do, but you can’t be persuaded by investing in it. Even if you are an older mother, there will be many problems in the future.

1. Physical aspects

After a woman reaches the age of forty, her body functions decline like a cliff. To conceive a child, she needs nutrition and a good nurturing environment. After insufficient Qi and blood are absorbed by the child, one's own physical strength and energy will also deteriorate. Even if you insist on raising your baby by yourself, can you be sure that you are in a good condition to raise your baby?

People sometimes cannot underestimate everything that nature has given us. If we do not act within our capabilities and have to grow against nature, the result may not be good.

2. Mental endurance

Are you scared when others mistakenly think your daughter is your granddaughter, or when you are called grandma by your son’s friends? Can you remain unmoved?

It is a good thing to have a child in old age, but when you have a second child in old age, you will inevitably be questioned and laughed at. You may think they are nosy, but human nature is such that you can't stop others from talking nonsense and making malicious ridicule.

3. Is the material foundation sufficient?

Breastfeeding is a big problem when you are older and have a baby. The baby needs to eat, and milk powder is a big expense. In addition, the baby also needs to be well dressed. , use it well, learn more, and be more knowledgeable, and the pension of the old couple will turn on in a minute. Therefore, if you do not have sufficient material foundation to back you up, never mention preparations for a second child. Raising children is not like raising small animals. The birth of a child is an absolute responsibility. If you raise them well, everyone will be happy; if you raise them poorly, you will feel bad, your children will suffer, and society will suffer.

Of course, you have arranged all the above aspects, so I still need to say hello to the boss. After all, your troubles are equivalent to his troubles. If you really want to let go, as a relative, He still wants to take care of you! Therefore, having a child is really not a person's business. You should face it rationally and think twice.