How does it feel to meet a husband with extremely low emotional intelligence?

It is a very helpless feeling to meet a husband with extremely low emotional intelligence.

He has never understood romance. In my eyes, a small Valentine's Day can create a very romantic complex. But he never knew how to be romantic. He always ignores these Valentine's Days. For him, Valentine's Day is nothing more than ordinary, and romance cannot be eaten as a meal. He would rather use his romantic money to buy me delicious food than to buy a bouquet of roses or a box of chocolates. To him, these are just words on paper, because roses will always wither, and chocolates It will always melt away. On Valentine's Day, he bought me things I like to eat, which warmed my stomach. Suddenly he felt how considerate he was, because he never let me go hungry at any time, and my stomach was hurt. He's very well taken care of. I can only hehe.

Many young couples will go to the cinema to watch movies, because they are more exciting that way. But whenever I asked to watch a movie with him, he would ask me to watch the movie with my mobile phone. He said that there are all kinds of movies on the street. You can watch whatever you want. Why bother to spend money? Where's the money to go to the cinema? But he doesn’t know that I like to hold popcorn, drink milk tea, and watch movies leisurely in the cinema. Watching a movie in a cinema is like being there, and the atmosphere makes you feel comfortable. And watching movies on mobile phones doesn’t feel like anything at all. But he doesn’t understand me. He thinks that popcorn and milk tea in the cinema are very expensive. If you have some spare money, you might as well recharge my phone bill and let me watch movies on my phone. I was drunk too. Such a man's emotional intelligence is really too low.

Occasionally cook a candlelight dinner at home, turn off all the lights, and then light a candle on the table. In such an atmosphere, it can greatly increase my appetite and also help me find the right person in love. Feel. When the two of them looked at each other and smiled in the candlelight, they could understand each other's thoughts. But as soon as he came home, his first reaction was to turn on the lights at home, and also said that I was so frugal, even though I had electricity, I still lit candles. All my emotions that are about to move. When he asked me this question, I suddenly lost any interest. He said that living conditions are very good now, and electric lights can illuminate everything. In the past, people could not see clearly even if they lit candles. We should cherish this great time now. I just rolled my eyes at everything he said. I have never seen such an unromantic person.

He's always been like this and I've given up on talking to him about romance. He doesn't understand romance at all, his emotional intelligence is too low, and he doesn't know how to maintain the feelings in marriage. Only simple feelings. Although it is not romantic and very dull, it is very safe. I would never worry about him being romantic with someone else, because he doesn't understand romance at all.

Therefore, meeting a husband with extremely low emotional intelligence is a kind of helplessness, but it is also very safe.