What should I do when I meet a relative with low character?

If it's time to build a house, don't let them feel bullied. My aunt, my family is in the country. When I was nine years old, our family was going to build a building. My aunt saw that our family was going to build a house, but her family hadn't built it at that time, so she came to my home and said to my mother, "Your daughter, my son, it's no use building a house in your family first."