People who are really rich can say it as soon as they open their mouths, and they have these four characteristics in speech.

The ancients said, "If you talk too much, you will lose." If people always like to talk, it's hard to avoid saying the wrong thing, just like the saying goes, "You can't get your shoes wet when you walk by the river."

In life, people who talk a lot seem to have both ends, but in fact, they will make enemies everywhere if they are not careful. After all, everyone has their own ideas, and no one can talk to others.

Whether it's a good word or a bad word, it's easy to make mistakes if you talk too much, so the truly wise people mostly laugh without saying a word.

Zeng Guofan said: "Those who are smart and exposed are thin, and those who are too rich are blessed." Not only wealth should not be exposed, but also cleverness is not suitable for showing off, which is easy to bring disaster. Similarly, a talkative person's luck will certainly not be too good.

It is foolish to pretend to be smart without a thorough explanation, and it is foolish to pretend to be smart with a little knowledge. If you want to be a truly rich person, you must first control your mouth.

Rich people can tell when they speak, and they often have these four characteristics when they speak.

After reading such a joke, a pair of colleagues had dinner together. The relationship is very general, but Party A insists on inviting Party B to a special place for dinner alone.

During the ordering period, Party A took the menu and ordered a table of dishes in one breath. The only soup is also green jade soup. This wave of operation made B speechless, and A didn't say anything, so he always advised the dishes and personally put a lot of dishes on A's plate.

Later, B said slowly that he accidentally learned some news that he shouldn't know, and his heart was very entangled, so he invited A to dinner, hoping to ease his inner entanglement.

As for what it is, A didn't say a word from beginning to end. B didn't understand it at first, and didn't realize it until after dinner, but he didn't admit it, but he looked depressed.

Later, B divorced, then A made a mistake at work, and B came forward to help solve it. To outsiders, the relationship between the two people has improved inexplicably, and the specific reasons are only understood by themselves.

Many times, even if others' neglect is obvious, they can only remind you a little and stop. Because we don't know whether the other party knows the truth or not, and what is the intention. A lot of things that save each other's face can impress each other more than blurting out indignation.

In life, people who cling to other people's mistakes will often get revenge from each other in the end. This is also why the older generation will emphasize the need to be reasonable and wait for no one.

Zeng Guofan said: "Modesty between heaven and earth is the way to carry blessings. When arrogance is full, it will fall when it is full. " Anyone who speaks and writes, hates people's vulgarity, doubts people's disdain, discusses people's shortcomings and reports on being a man is arrogant. "

In this world, everyone likes to be praised by others, but he doesn't like to be criticized. In the face of other people's mistakes, if you can't find a suitable way to say it, you might as well not say it at all.

No matter how close a friend is, he can't ignore it and comment on each other publicly. No one likes to be judged, even if they are close, it is for his own good, even in person.

A wise man not only has the wisdom to see through, but also has the wisdom to shut up.

It is not a good thing to talk less and do more, and always like to judge your friends, not to mention what outsiders will think and what the other party will think when they hear it.

There is a kind of ability that is often overlooked, and that is the communication ability with high emotional intelligence.

The so-called communication is easy to understand. It means that two people have different understandings and views on the same thing, which leads to communication, and its purpose is very clear, that is, to solve the problem.

The most common conversation between people is communication, and every sentence is to express one's own views and test the other's ideas.

Communication between strangers is essential. Transparent people understand the importance and necessity of communication, so they speak clearly.

They understand that many things will be complicated in the end because of the failure of the first communication and the subsequent communication.

If you want to solve the problem, you must make it clear to your face. Talking behind the scenes can not only solve the problem, but also lead to new problems.

Modesty is the traditional virtue of our nation, and "keeping a low profile" is one of the widely circulated viewpoints at present. Only people who keep a low profile can be respected by others.

Many times, whether a person has a level or not does not need to be emphasized by himself. Others are not fools, and it is easy to feel.

As the saying goes: "A bottle is silent, and half a bottle shakes." Each of us is like a bottle full of water. The louder the sound, the lighter the water. On the contrary, those silent bottles are very heavy.

Life is not a foregone conclusion, as the saying goes, "Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi." No one can tell where the next step will go.

Low-key and calm is a kind of accomplishment. Although the future is boundless, the road is smooth, at least it will not be annoying if it is not arrogant.

In this society, not showing mountains and not showing dew is great wisdom. It is good to know your grades. Showing off is not necessarily admiration, but jealousy is more likely.

Chen Wei said: I hope your life will be better after listening to me.