No one's life is easy, so why can't we complain to others easily?

Each of us has our own hardships and difficulties in life. Some people like to complain with others, so we may feel stressed and depressed when talking about our own sufferings. Some people can put their pains and tiredness in their hearts and face others happily every day. These are two different attitudes towards life. I can only say that when you want to complain, find the right person. Don't complain, complain to everyone. This will only arouse the resentment of others. Like Sister Xianglin, it is not easy for people to see themselves, and they are afraid of being caught listening to you.

First, every adult of us has experienced the hardship of life, so knowing that complaining is useless, we won't complain to others easily. No one's life is smooth sailing. The optimism we see in front of us may not be bitter in others' hearts, nor will it be bitter behind us. Maybe the burden and responsibility on each other's shoulders are heavier than ours. So don't tell others how hard you work, because everyone is not easy. It is better to think about how to make your life more meaningful by complaining.

Second, the closest person in life is our partner, so when someone shoulders the burden of life with us, we should be grateful. In life, couples always have a division of labor between family and the outside world. Although there is a difference between how much money they earn and how much housework they do, their responsibilities and contributions to the family are the same. There is no need to complain about who pays more and who has more leisure. It is not easy to make money. It is difficult to take care of children and do housework. The true meaning of marriage is that two people support each other and help each other.

Third, some people like to complain with others that their children are disobedient and their partners are inconsiderate. Some people always like to talk about their family and work with others. The disobedient children are unfamiliar with their children, the unkind and considerate partners think it is the fault of the other party, the work leaders who don't pay attention to themselves and don't give themselves a raise and promotion are all the reasons of the company. They never reflect on themselves. This is the most undesirable practice.