Does the girl have no home when she grows up?

? Happiness is nothing more than fireworks in the kitchen and the temperature at home.

Do girls have no home when they grow up? In fact, this sentence is reasonable, especially for girls who get married when they grow up. In some ways, a girl is a girl without a family.

As a grown-up girl, I often think about this problem when I grow up. When I got married, I was a guest at my parents' house and an outsider at my husband's house. In fact, the house I live in is not what I really own. Once something happens, girls will find that many times, there is no home. ...

? At home.-A guest?

There is a saying that from ancient times to the present, many times we will find that if our daughter marries everyone, it seems that she is not so close to her family.

I am deeply touched by this, because when my sister came to talk about marriage, I told her that you and I are sisters now, and we are a family now, but once you get married, we will become relatives from relatives. As soon as this sentence came out, my sister burst into tears, as if there was nothing to refute me, as if it were true, as if it were a fact.

We are sisters. We are related by blood. However, if once my sister gets married, it seems that there is a thin film between us, as if we have changed from real relatives to relatives, we will not be in the same home, and my sister will go to another home to be someone else's wife and daughter-in-law. He seems to have a lot more identity, but he seems to be different with his family.

This is really touching. I suddenly feel that girls will go back to their parents' home when they grow up. He is another feeling. If she is not married, she will really go home. If she gets married, she will go back to her parents' home. It seems that there is only one more word, but the actual meaning has changed a lot.

The actual feeling is different. We will find that if we get married, the girl will become very polite to her mother when she goes back to her mother's house, and will become a stranger to her brother and sister, and will become a polite person, so it makes sense to say so.

? In-laws-outsiders?

Even if you marry into a good family, your mother-in-law is actually very kind to you, but you have never been related to them. This is an undeniable fact. Without blood relationship, it can't be as good as home.

You will always feel like an outsider, because you are the only one in your in-laws who is not related to other members. Your husband's brother and sister, your husband's brother and sister, they and your mother-in-law, including your husband, are all relatives, and you are the only one in their family who is not related.

In fact, there seems to be an obstacle. Even if he is kind to you, you will feel like an outsider and have no sense of closeness. You don't live with your parents, brothers and sisters like at home.

You came to other people's homes in your twenties. Besides, it takes some time to integrate into a family, and you will really feel like an outsider during this time.

This is still under the good conditions of my mother-in-law. What happens if your mother-in-law treats you badly and you still have the so-called contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Do you feel more like an outsider in this family, so there are many things we don't want to admit, but the fact is that under the pressure of heart, girls will feel as if they don't have a home.

? At home-no sense of belonging?

In this era, in this era, it is still such a custom that it is difficult to marry a woman. Men bear the ability to buy a house and a car, and undertake the task of buying a house and a car. Therefore, when a girl marries, the garage is generally a boy's. Imagine if a boy says you left my house, there seems to be no reason for girls to refute it, because this house really belongs to boys, not girls.

So girls are girls. When she grows up and gets married, she will gradually find that many things don't belong to her. She doesn't seem to belong to anyone, but she seems to belong to anyone. He seems to have many roles, but these roles are not close.

Therefore, when we are at home, we will feel like a guest and find that we are married, as if nothing had been said before. We suddenly changed from relatives to relatives. In the husband's family, in this strange feeling, and in fact there is no blood relationship, girls will feel like outsiders under this inner emptiness.

When you get married, if you quarrel with your husband, if he tells you to get out and let you go, you seem to have no reason, because this house is really not yours. Nominally, this house belongs to your husband, which seems to have nothing to do with yourself.

Therefore, after growing up and getting married, the times gave girls many roles, but at the same time deprived them of a lot of affection …