How to chat with an indifferent girl?

Skills you must learn to become a "chat expert": keyword chat method

First, the preface-keyword chat method

Whether in social occasions or in love, when you can skillfully use keywords to chat, it can help you improve the quality of your chat and effectively grasp each other's topics.

There are two ways to chat with keywords here: one is shallow and the other is deep!

Shallow level is used to establish basic dialogue connection, and deep level is used to establish inner emotional connection. Let's talk about the shallow skills in this article first, and then talk about the next one.

For beginners, you can use this simple keyword skill when chatting with others and don't know how to proceed. Because the shallow keyword chat method only maintains simple and normal dialogue and communication, those old drivers who have been through the battlefield have already unconsciously used this skill.

All right! Let's talk about this chat skill in detail!

Second, what is the keyword chat method?

Keyword chat method, as its name implies, is to grasp the keywords in the topic to maintain and continue the chat topic.

Therefore, when chatting with the other party, we can keep a normal conversation by grasping a key word in the other party's discourse and then talking about our own experiences, opinions, feelings or stories related to other people according to this key word.

Third, the common skills of keywords to continue the chat topic

1. lazy chat method: repeat keywords at the end of the sentence.

In chatting, extracting the keywords at the end of the other person's speech and then repeating them in the tone of interested questions can guide the other person to continue talking.

Chestnuts:

(1) A: "I found a strange thing here yesterday?"

B: "Things?"

A: "Yes, at that time ..."

(2) Answer: "I have a friend who was cheated the day before yesterday."

B: "cheated?"

A: "Yes, because he believed the winning message sent by cheating paper."

B: "What news?"

A: "The content of the message is ..."

2. Continuation of core keywords

Grasping any "keyword" in a sentence to continue the topic is one of the simplest and most basic chat skills.

(1) For example:

The other party said, "I was scolded by my supervisor today and I was in a bad mood."

The key words of this sentence are: supervisor, scolded, in a bad mood, can extend the topic from this direction;

Example of topic continuation:

"What's your usual relationship with the supervisor?" (Keywords: supervisor)

"Yes, I feel that being scolded in the company will make me feel uncomfortable all day." (Keywords: being scolded)

"I know, I always want to eat when I am in a bad mood. Will you do the same? " (Keywords: mood)

(2) another example is:

Grasp an interesting core keyword in the other party's discourse and deeply misinterpret it.

A: I'm just saying. ...

So you are a casual person. ...

When chatting with the other party, you can look for "meaningful" or "interesting" keywords to extend and expand, so as to effectively grasp the key points of each sentence.