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What is the concept of love that "suits each other"?

Some people say: "It doesn't matter who you marry, and you will live on daily necessities in the future."

In fact, this view is wrong, because before a person gets married, whether he is a good family man or a good woman who knows the roots has been "stereotyped". It's also rice, oil and salt, but it can taste different.

If two people are not suitable, it is difficult to move forward side by side.

Real matching does not necessarily mean economic equivalence, but whether the values of two people are consistent.

I like frugality and you like luxury; I am diligent and enterprising, but you are not enterprising;

I like the dull two-person world, but you like the chic life of the party;

I like chatting with you in bed, but you are only interested in computer games;

I'm telling you about a book or a movie I read recently, but you don't know what to say.

I am a literary youth, but you are the incarnation of the devil.

Perhaps, when love comes, two people will still love each other to death, because at the beginning of love, everything is new, and your completely different values from mine make me feel novel.

However, as time goes on, the passion of two people fades, and then if two people still can't make progress together.

Contradictions caused by different values will continue to emerge until two people can't reconcile with love, and the relationship cracks until it can't be repaired.

They think that love can be all-encompassing, but in the end they find that the power of love is too small to coordinate the constant problems between two people in marriage.

Love is not enough for a lifetime.

If the two sides can't make progress together, one side must always stop and wait for the other side's pace or drag the other side forward.

Therefore, in the long run, their contradictions will continue to be highlighted. No matter how unforgettable the previous love is, it will gradually alienate because of the widening gap between the two people.

Even if two people have the same material conditions, it is still not a real match if the values are not close. Their marriage finally failed, although it was regrettable, but it was also expected.

How important values are in a relationship.

Although marriage is a combination of two families, it will eventually return to the coexistence of two people, and whether two people can live in harmony depends on whether the values of both sides are consistent.

If love and marriage emphasize the right match, then this right match must not be equal in money. After all, marriage is not a business.

What is happiness? It means that two people have the same values and can help each other and make progress together. True happiness has nothing to do with family, power and money.

The real match, on the one hand, is the economic conditions of the two families, on the other hand, it is whether the thinking mode, attitude towards life, understanding of outlook on life, values and love are * * *.

A suitable marriage must be considered. The right marriage is not necessarily the best marriage, but it must be the most stable marriage.

Before you get married, you must know each other's family, go to their home and see what kind of people they are and whether they are easy to get along with. The behavior and lifestyle of family of origin's parents are the key to a long marriage.

No matter how important the other person's material conditions are, you should also put your personality in the position of 1. Love can be arbitrary, but marriage inevitably has to weigh the gains and losses.

Love can be poor, but marriage is not. When you are in love, you don't have to care about each other's income and family situation. It is good for two people to be happy together. However, marriage is a kind of life, which costs money everywhere, and having children is a big expense. If the other person doesn't have a corresponding material foundation, then you have to calculate money every day, and even the best feelings can't stand years of economic oppression.

The economic foundation determines your confidence in marriage. The economic gap between the two is too big, which doomed the people with poor conditions to be in a weak position. Because you have no money, you eat and drink from other people's food, so you have no confidence in anything. The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and a materially suitable marriage will be happy.

Spiritual fit is the real fit.

What is happiness? It means that two people have the same values. Emotional breakdown is not necessarily due to quarrels and infidelity, but also to different values. Two people have the same spiritual realm, and work together for a better goal, so that marriage will not be reduced to a situation where one person drags the other.

Marriage with a suitable family is easier to be happy.

I hope everyone can understand that love is not the whole of marriage. On the basis of considering love, we must not ignore the appropriate collocation, because this is the most important part of marriage.

What kind of marriage is perfect? Like-minded, three views are consistent.

You just like what I like, and you know my cold jokes. Our comments and views on things are basically the same. We can play, eat and chat together. When these are consistent, the marital happiness index is five stars, and the firmness index is five stars.

There is nothing wrong with being ordinary. Simplicity is a kind of happiness. It is better to live a happy and comfortable life with your ordinary partner than to spend your whole life appreciating an illusory happiness.