What do you think of the statement that "the harder a boy works, the more valuable he is, and the harder a girl works, the more she can't get married"?

I remembered a joke that "girls will get married if they don't work hard, but they can live in a better nursing home if they work hard." Behind this joke is a mockery of modern marriage values and a praise for pseudo-feminism.

The harder everyone works, the more valuable they are. Values are gender-neutral and age-neutral, so it is funny to divide values into boys and girls.

The value of boys not only contributes to family and women, but also the value of girls not only contributes to men and children. They overweight themselves, and the ultimate goal is to live a good life for themselves. We don't live in this world to find someone. Marriage and love only exist as accessories, and they are not equal to our own values.

Maybe many older girls with high academic qualifications are not accepted by some people. In fact, this is normal, because girls study so hard to avoid marrying these people, because they don't deserve such girls.

There has never been a uniform standard for the value between people. Each of us is a human being and has our own standards.