Parenting Experience of Middle School Parents: How Parents Become Mentors and Friends in Children's Families

This article "Parenting Experience of Middle School Parents: How Parents Become Mentors and Friends of Young Children's Families" is specially compiled for everyone, hoping to help everyone!

Now more and more young parents hope to cultivate the next generation with healthy personality and excellent quality. It is really painstaking for young parents to rack their brains for advice from books with novel educational ideas on the issue of educating their children. Here, I am very happy to be among them and talk with you about my own views, aiming at attracting jade.

1, parents take a step back and children take a step forward.

Remember how children learn to walk? Parents step back, children step forward, slowly, children's footsteps become more and more stable and walk faster and faster ... Maybe every parent has such parenting experience. However, this kind of experience is gradually forgotten by some parents in their children's later growth. Moral education for children should be started from an early age, not relaxed, and should be treated in the same important position as intellectual education.

2. Spend as much time with your children as possible after work.

Busy parents are used to buying a lot of gifts to express their apologies to their children, but in fact this is not what children need most. Why not put down the phone, turn off the TV and relax together? Play games, tell stories and jokes that happened during the day, ask more questions in kindergarten, and don't forget to tell your child that being with him is your happiest moment.

With enough communication time, even if your work or entertainment occasionally interrupts your communication, children will understand you.

3. Discipline is not redundant. Make clear what you want from him.

Only by knowing the boundaries of doing anything can children be safe. Tell your child clearly what you want, so that he will know when enough is enough and will not unconsciously cross the boundary between safety and danger. Although sometimes children may not want to listen, as long as you are firm and make reasonable demands on him, then he will definitely obey your constraints in the end.

4. Take on the responsibilities of parents.

With children, we should rearrange our life for this little life: work should try not to occupy the time of life, use the time of parenting correctly, improve the quality of family life and so on. As a parent, the social occasions you have to attend are no longer limited to work. You should have a positive performance in children's parent-child activities and parent-child meetings.