My date broke up with me (pictured) because someone else provoked me?

Not only in film and television dramas, but also around boys who already have girlfriends, there may be some more scheming girls who speak ill of boys and girlfriends and provoke their relationship.

In real life, this situation still exists. What should you do if your boyfriend is provoked to break up with you by green tea?

0 1 the meaning of "green tea"

It is said that "green tea" was originally used to describe more lively and cheerful girls, and later it was gradually quoted as a different kind of "green tea". Refers to some seemingly harmless double-faced girls, but in fact they are very artificial, with one set on the surface and one set behind them.

If someone describes a girl as green tea, it is probably not a good adjective. On the surface, she is as fresh and refined as green tea, but inside, she is very scheming.

If such a girl secretly loves a boy, she will take the initiative regardless of whether the other person has a girlfriend or not.

This kind of girl will keep inviting boys to meet, and then try every means to provoke the relationship between boys and his girlfriend in order to break up with them and successfully replace her superiors.

However, boys are a little slow to this type of girls, and they can't tell who is "green tea" at all, while girls can tell it accurately, so this contradiction of inconsistent views will also bring crisis to their feelings.

The story of "green tea"

Xiaoke's boyfriend recently met a new colleague Xiaoli at work. Xiaoke didn't care too much about this Xiaoli at first, but her boyfriend always went out alone recently and said that she would go shopping. Xiaoke couldn't help going out one day and saw her boyfriend and Xiaoli wandering in the street.

This scene made Xiaoke very angry, but she didn't make a mountain out of a molehill directly, but waited for her boyfriend to go home before asking him where he had gone.

My boyfriend answered truthfully when he went for a stroll, but he didn't say there was a Xiaoli standing beside him.

Xiaoke came to her boyfriend's company to cook for him the next day, trying to find out what kind of person Xiaoli is. Knowing that her boyfriend has her, she is shameless and is definitely not a good girl.

As a result, Xiaoke really overheard Xiao Li's thoughts about her boyfriend in the bathroom and said that she would provoke them to break up. This makes Xiaoke very angry, but he doesn't know how to solve it.

Before Xiaoke could figure out a solution, her boyfriend broke up. Originally, she couldn't believe that her boyfriend would really listen to Xiaoli, but the result was so sad.

Xiaoke originally thought about how to gently tell her boyfriend that Xiaoli is "green tea", and the result really made Xiaoli get what she wanted. Although the heart is unwilling, she can't distinguish the boyfriend of "green tea", and she doesn't like it.

Their feelings were so fragile, so why is she still struggling? He likes "green tea", let him like it. She doesn't care.

As a result, two people broke up, and the boyfriend was naturally with Xiaoli, but it seems that they broke up again in less than a month. Xiaoke couldn't help laughing at her predecessor after knowing this, but she didn't know it. She lost a good girlfriend in vain and deserved it.

Why is the boyfriend successfully provoked by "green tea"

After reading Xiaoke's case, we can actually analyze why her boyfriend was successfully provoked by "green tea". One of the biggest reasons, Xiaoke also realized, is that her boyfriend doesn't like Xiaoke so much.

Yes, if a person really likes a person, the provocation from outside can't be heard, let alone being provoked by others, and even the opportunity to listen is directly ignored.

Xiaoke's boyfriend doesn't like Xiaoke enough, so he will be tempted by other girls. People who love you deeply don't care about another opposite sex except you.

And it is very likely that there are some problems in the relationship between the two people. "Flies don't bite seamless eggs" also means this. There is nothing wrong with love, and no one else can get involved.

Maybe you can't see your boyfriend clearly, because he is willing to let the opposite sex approach her, and he also responds to the opposite sex. If he doesn't like you, he is either a single-minded person or a love rat.

What should I do in this situation?

First of all, you should decide whether to continue this relationship or not. If there is, you should find out where the contradiction between your feelings lies. Only by fundamentally solving the problem can we save our feelings.

Of course, the specific retention method, you can remind your boyfriend of the good memories between you, let him wake up.

Or just play with it, knowing that "green tea" exists on the surface and behind the scenes, you can arrange some coincidences to let your boyfriend see the other side of "green tea", which will definitely be a good offensive and defensive war.

Never show your dislike of "green tea" in front of your boyfriend, which will aggravate his inner dissatisfaction with you and think that you are a bad person, which will subvert the good image you have created before.

If you don't want to, then you can see clearly what kind of person this man is. Maybe you should thank "green tea" and let you know him again. Don't hold back when you are wronged. The fault is not you, but those two conspirators.

Then if you know that he has the intention to break up with you, just tell him what happened to him, break up with her and leave some dignity for yourself.

For this kind of boyfriend who is easy to follow in the footsteps of "green tea", even if you are willing to compromise yourself and continue your relationship, you think it is better to put up with it a little more. Actually, this is the stupidest way.