"I want to make money to support my younger brother." What about the little girl who made millions when she debuted at the age of 4?

With the rapid development of information network technology today, becoming famous is no longer as difficult as it used to be. The threshold is much lower. Sometimes you can become an Internet celebrity by posting updates on social platforms.

Some parents have always believed that "you must become famous early" and have trained their children to be superstars since they were young, learning performances, dance shows, etc.

Maybe parents have good intentions and want their children to win at the starting line, but sometimes they often fall into a money trap.

Children have taken on the responsibility of supporting their families since they were young. In the face of huge incomes, parents have become agents, consuming their children's childhood and putting aside learning knowledge.

“I want to make money to support my younger brother.” What about the little girl who made millions when she debuted at the age of 4?

Nowadays, many children have become Internet celebrities, and their annual salary may be more than one million. Many parents can’t help but start to envy. What kind of family can cultivate such outstanding children? But no one cares whether the child is happy or sad.

When it comes to the name Ala Lei, many people are familiar with it. She has participated in many variety shows and has been pushed to the forefront by major media.

Starting her career at the age of 4, she earns millions a year to support her family. Many parents envy Arale’s parents for having a daughter who can make money like this.

At the same time, many media outlets have criticized the parents for consuming their daughter’s childhood, which is nothing more than "gnawing at the baby."

When other children are playing with their peers at home and sleeping in their mother's arms. However, her entire life is filled with work, and she rushes to different workplaces every day. Sometimes she falls asleep at the workplace when she is tired.

A netizen once photographed Arale and her mother riding the subway. Her face was full of exhaustion and exhaustion, and her eyes were very dark. For a child at such a young age, he was exposed to society too early, and his whole person became no longer happy and innocent.

Someone once asked Arale why she worked so hard to make money, but Arale said: "I want to make money to support my younger brother."

Although it is a joke, if parents usually do not If she hadn't said it before, where did she say this? How can one be truly happy in childhood after being instilled with such ideas since childhood?

Do you know the harm caused by nibbling in society?

The new form of nibbling has become no longer unfamiliar and has even become a common phenomenon.

But on the surface it seems to have brought huge economic benefits to the family, but do parents really understand the hidden harm to their children?

1. Distort the child’s three views

The child is still young and his three views have not yet been formed. Let him accept the adult world early and understand the role of money. Let children become eager for quick success and impatient.

If you think that money is greater than everything else, your outlook will begin to be distorted, and your future development will also be distorted.

2. Impact on physical and mental health

Children are relatively young and their bodies are still developing. They bear a lot of adult work and cannot get better rest for various functions.

Long hours of work will make the child's body unbearable, and the child will gradually lose his desire for the world. If things go on like this, he will think that his parents do not love him, and he will develop a series of psychological disorders. In severe cases, it may even lead to depression.

How to let your children have a happy childhood?

Childhood is a one-way journey, and once it passes, it can never be made up for. Loss of childhood will affect a child's lifelong development and may also leave a serious psychological shadow, which cannot be ignored.

1. Parents should spend more time with their children

Children need a sense of security when they are young. Regular company by parents will make children feel happy and increase their inner sense of security.

Sometimes, what children need is not financial satisfaction, but the company of their parents.

2. Accept the child’s childhood

When educating their children, some mothers always like to inform the adult world in advance so that the children can grow up in advance, which is undoubtedly counterproductive.

Parents must accept their children in their hearts, recognize the existence of childhood, and let them have the most innocent and happy time.

Every child has the right to choose his or her future life after birth. As a parent, you should choose the right path for your child.

Money may be important to human beings, but it should not be everything in life. No amount of money can fill the shadow of childhood.

Parents please do not ruin their children’s childhood and create regrets in their lives.