"A 45-year-old man has white hair." What happens when a man marries a bitch?

We often use an old saying to describe the importance of women's marriage to people: men are afraid of getting into the wrong line and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. Actually, I think men are also afraid of marrying the wrong bride.

For men, the most important thing in life, besides their own career, should be family. And with the growth of age, the "home front" will become more and more important in my heart, so what kind of other half he marries is very important.

Nowadays, all kinds of social media are more about maintaining their happiness in marriage from the perspective of women. So, who will give men happiness in marriage? After all, happiness in marriage is a two-way emotion. If you only think about yourself but ignore each other, the so-called happiness is only temporary.

Many people say that women should be "bitches" in marriage in order to be happy. After all, many sensible women are not cherished. However, do you know what will happen in a man's life if he marries a real bitch?

Lao Zhou is a man who married a "bitch". He is called Lao Zhou by many people because people who don't know him think he is over 60 years old. After all, almost all his white hair is the best proof. In fact, he is only 45 years old this year.

Lao Zhou doesn't like to laugh. He always looks listless when he sees people, as if he is in low spirits. His marriage with his wife has existed in name only, but there is still no divorce.

It is always said that Lao Zhou's life should have been a different scene, but his life was changed because of an careless marriage.

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When Lao Zhou was young, he had regular facial features and was tall. He read many books. When he was young, he was picky about the other half. There were many girls chasing him, but he just didn't like any of them.

Later, because his parents were in poor health, he went back to his hometown to work. At this time, he was almost 30 years old, and his mother was anxious to have a grandson and began to give him a blind date. He met this girl on a blind date. Although the girl has never been to school, she is handsome and sensible, and her parents are very satisfied.

He didn't like it at that time, but his parents were satisfied, and he was old enough to get married soon. Who knows that after marriage, the knowledgeable person I knew before marriage disappeared completely, and the person in front of me became a completely unknown person.

His wife is a very self-centered person who thinks about herself in everything. First, after she got married, she refused to work and asked him to hand over the economic power of the family. He thought that since he was a family, he would let her take care of the money.

But his wife subsidized a lot of money to the family, and refused to admit it, saying that the family expenses were used up. However, I met him several times to give money to my family. She was indefensible and had to make a scene, saying that he had no conscience. Her parents were his parents, so why not give him some money?

So after so many years of marriage, his family has no savings at all.

After the marriage, his mother was dissatisfied with his wife's many behaviors and said a few words to her. They had a quarrel. His mother was in hospital and almost didn't come back. He wanted a divorce, but his wife refused, and threatened to die, saying that if he dared to leave, she would immediately run to the middle of the road.

His heart melted and he was afraid that she would do something bad. This compromise decided his future fate.

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Later, they had a child, whose character was taught by his wife to be extremely eccentric, rude to people, stealing, and a lot of small problems. Every time he said a word or two, his wife cried and quarreled with him, saying that she gave birth to him and did a lot for this family. All he knows is that it's easy to stand and talk.

He wants to teach the children by himself, but he usually works outside. After all, he is the pillar of the family. When the wife doesn't go to work, the children can only be taken care of by the wife at home. This is what he didn't expect.

His communication with his wife never worked. When he talked too much, his wife stood on the main road and cried about his behavior, saying that more people should see how heartless he was and how bad he was to their mother and son. Even at the worst, his wife went to his company to make trouble. He was in pain and had to apologize. In fact, he didn't even know where he was wrong.

After more than ten years of marriage, he has changed from a high-spirited young man before marriage to a 45-year-old white-haired man. Who knows how helpless and depressed his heart is?

However, this marriage is inseparable. He's been trapped all his life. He is also a very responsible person. He said that even if he divorced, he couldn't get rid of her because of his relationship with his children.

Later, it seems that he made his own arrangements, not to mention the divorce. He said that he felt that his marriage had made people read a lot of jokes over the years, and many people were watching it to see when he could endure it. He knows others are laughing at him, but he can't change anything.

However, by contrast, his wife, who has been married for many years, is extremely free and easy, at least on the surface. But, I wonder, does she regret the marriage she never loved?

He wanted to learn to love her, but she didn't give him a chance.

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Marriage, no matter who you are with, the other half is very important. A woman who marries "love rat" has a hard life, and a man who marries "bitch" will ruin his life.

But sometimes the probability of meeting someone is very strange, just like someone always asks, why do many good women like to meet "love rat" and good men easily meet "shrew"? There are always two sides to everything, and so are people.

Therefore, this requires everyone to spend enough time to get to know the people in front of them, whether they are women or men.

I hope everyone can find the most suitable person in marriage.