When having dinner with a blind date, the boy asked if the meal was on you or me. Is this a sign of meanness?

When having a meal with a blind date, the boy asks whether this meal is for him or for you, which is equivalent to being stingy, or not liking your performance. Under normal circumstances, as long as this boy has a crush on this girl, he should be more attentive and take the initiative to pay the bill, leaving a good impression on the girl, but now he can't see his behavior at all.

First, this is a sign of meanness, and it is also a sign of not liking it.

I want to ask everyone if you have ever experienced blind date. Xiaobian experienced it once, and after this experience, he didn't even think about falling in love. At that time, when having dinner with him on a blind date, the boy also asked such a question, otherwise this meal will be on you, and the next meal will be on me. After hearing this sentence, he really felt his three views. If you say you didn't like it, you did, and you said you liked it, and you didn't want to spend money, so you can see that this person is stingy and stingy, which can be judged in most cases, but there are some special circumstances.

Second, paying the bill can actually add some impression points to girls.

It's really not good for boys to be too stingy, whether it's your first blind date or many blind dates. Some boys will take the initiative to pay the bill. For girls, there are some burdens in their hearts. They will invite this meal back later. Xiaobian is such a person. As long as you spend 1 yuan, I will definitely pay you back 15 or 2 yuan, so that I feel that I don't owe you anything. However, in this link of blind date, it is not to be stingy or economical, but to see whether you are generous or not and whether you will leave a good impression on others.

Third, the consumption concept is too different, which is not very suitable.

Dating for dinner is awkward and sensitive. It's not that boys and girls have to pay the bill when they are dating. It's just that paying the bill can increase girls' goodwill. If you don't pay the bill, it will affect your image in girls' programs, and it will give you points. At the same time, it's not suitable if the consumption concept is too different.