Smart people: don’t speak four things

? Classmate A Liu/You have books to read

Whether it is work or life, blurting out is the most taboo thing. Smart people speak with their brains, and wise people speak with their brains. Speak with your heart. Don't speak nonsense in front of others, don't speak ill in front of others, don't complain about others or yourself, and don't tell lies.

It is easy to get rid of the sores, but it is difficult to eliminate the bad words. It goes without saying that the consequences of school violence and online violence in today’s society are obvious. Mouth is an ax to hurt others, words are a knife to cut tongues, not speaking bad words is to protect oneself and not to sink morally. When bad words are spread into the ears of others, it hurts both others and yourself, and one day it will be reflected back on you. The old saying is true: "Diseases come in from the mouth, and disasters come out from the mouth."

Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others' faults.

People who are self-aware will not blame others. Blaming others and blaming oneself means more success than failure, because they cannot see the good in others and cannot recognize their own abilities and actions. Life will not change because of the complaints you say. Talking too much will only cause trouble, make you lose self-confidence, and wash away your happiness.

Complaining is the natural enemy of success, the nemesis of happiness, and the label of the weak.

It is not a good thing if a person is too sharp and talks too much. Speaking arrogant words before you have no ability will only make people laugh. Those who have the ability to say arrogant words are just the result of attacking in groups. No matter how good a person is, if he talks too much, people will stay away. If you think about it in another person's shoes, you don't like to hear other people talk nonsense.

To hide one's strength and guard one's clumsiness can be said to be as wise as a fool.

If you have no choice but to tell the truth, it is better to remain silent or change the subject. If you tell a lie, it will take hundreds of lies to cover it up, and it will snowball like a snowball. When the ball breaks, both you and the people around you will be hurt. To be more realistic, the loss of a small benefit will lead to a larger loss, and the loss outweighs the gain.

If a person has no words, he cannot be trusted. If a person has no faith, he cannot be trusted with words.

Hemingway said: "It takes us two years to learn to speak, but it takes a lifetime to learn to shut up." There is no end to learning, and over time, you can always learn when and where to "shut up."